Dilly Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 OMG, last night we were doing it and he poked me repeatedly and I started thinking he was hitting my pubic/pelvic bones only to find out afterwards that he had torn me pretty badly. The doctor was pretty surprized by how bad it was and told me it was one of the worst tears she's seen. I have NEVER torn vaginally before so this was really weird. Just posting this because I was prolly pretty uninterested. I don't feel that sexy right now and the dryness prolly contributed. BE careful, that's all I can say. Due, fortunately, quite soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocio Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 wow. how could thatt happen? Is he really big? Didn't you feel it? My boyfriend is really big and if we're not careful, I'll get swelling. But a tear.. yikes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willow2900 Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 OUCH!! When I read that I crossed my legs and grimmaced! Now I am not pregnant, nor have been so I don't know if this is silly but could it be that he was at a different angle because of your belly? I guess you won't be worrying as much about an episiotomy if you are having a vaginal birth as you already got one?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doyathink Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 Torn on the inside...or outside? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dilly Posted March 30, 2007 Author Share Posted March 30, 2007 I was torn on the outside, like a vulvar tear. He's not really like that big. He's long, but not really - I don't know - dangerous. He's long, but it's never ever hurt. We've been doing it for years and nothing like this has ever happened. I think the baby is pulling my canal in a bit of an unusual direction so when he would zig a bit, maybe I zagged a bit and usually, that wouldn't be a problem, but he wasn't even pushing that hard, it just felt like he was hitting my bone. I'll add the doc said that it's because there's just more swelling in that area most likely so these things happen in late pregnancy, mostly when the woman is dry and swollen and the man is erect and misses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dilly Posted March 30, 2007 Author Share Posted March 30, 2007 I have NOT been feeling sexy at all and so even though I'm in the mood for him, I get totally out of the mood when we do it and I can see myself. It was in front of the mirror so needless to say, I lost complete interest while staring at myself, hahaha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Locke2121 Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 Yeesh! Were you like really dry or what??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dilly Posted March 30, 2007 Author Share Posted March 30, 2007 I didn't feel that dry, but I imagine I prolly was. He didn't tell me I was, but what else could explain THAT!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Locke2121 Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 Well, thats all I can think of...unless he changed to Marque de Sade condoms!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cantexplain Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 Sounds possible the zigging and the zagging and the canal change may have something to do with it, too. A combination of things. And you must be sexy if he is, well, interested as he seems to be!! Sorry I hope you get better soon. Congrats on the baby!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Locke2121 Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 There are few things sexer that a pregnant lady....don't know why, but its true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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