hurtntime Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 Me and my ex broke up almost 4 months ago, I feel I'm pretty much over it for the most part, yet last night before I feel asleep all I could think about was the pain that I felt intially after we broke up. I've been doing so well for so long, I'm in the process of possibly starting to date again. Yet every now and again I feel the pain of losing her, is this normal? Does everyone miss there ex every now and again. We dated for three years and she was with someone else 3 days later yet I wasnt mad. She basically just did everything in her power to piss me off all summer yet a very very very small part of me still misses her. Is this normal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Pheonyxx Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 YES I have been married for 4 years now and every once in a while I get that "what if" feeling and start missing some one I used to date more than 7 years ago. Once you love some one a part of you always will. It takes alot of effort to hate some one and only slightly less to stop loving them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pimpcess Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 I completely agree with the above post, if u go through a lot with someone, then they do stay in your heart, and I dont see that as a bad thing. I broke up with my ex boyfriend, and I was hurting so bad, I thought I'd never get over it. But now I look back, and I see the whole time as a positive one that has left me as a stronger person. What your feeling is common, but try and think of it as nice memories, remember the good and try to faze the bad out. Good luck. ~Pimpcess~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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