darkpumpkin Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 What are people's opinions out there when it comes to the feeling of a relationship. Is it better to say for example go out with someone for 3 months and it feels like only a week has passed or is it better to go out for 3 months and almost feel like you've been going out for years. This is just a general question. Which one last longer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EvaGina Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Im not sure, to me it feels like both we are comfortable with eachother and it feels like we have always been together, but then time is also flying... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkpumpkin Posted February 20, 2007 Author Share Posted February 20, 2007 hmmmm....have you had relationships where you look back after 3 months and feel like it's been a week? Or where it feels that you have been going out for years after a short time? Just either or? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EvaGina Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 hmmmm....have you had relationships where you look back after 3 months and feel like it's been a week? Or where it feels that you have been going out for years after a short time? Just either or? I know I have gotten to the 6 month mark and wondered where the time went. I couldnt believe I had already been here a month when the 10th of feb rolled round Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkpumpkin Posted February 20, 2007 Author Share Posted February 20, 2007 Yes it is true that good times seem to fly by. But like I feel that I've been with my boyfriend for at least a year and I've only been with him for 4 months. We've had our problems but it just feels like I've always been with him. Where my first relationship I think I realized 3 months had gone by in no time. Then 6 then a year. But I can't say that they were filled with great times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lifestream Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 I think both are good in the right context. I think if it feels longer, then it could mean you feel more emotionally connected. If it feels like time flew by, it could mean you're having a lot of fun. Both can be good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EvaGina Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Every relationship is different... dont sweat stuff like this, its all individual perception Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
treefrogkate Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 I have never been happier than I am in my current relationship. We've been going out for just over a year, and I can at once think "Wow, a year already?" and "Only a year? It feels like we've known each other forever." I think it's impossible for anyone but the person in that particular relationship to know whether what you're feeling is good or bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now