is it possible?

[rodney]

is it possible that a girl likes you but shows NO interest at all??

[EvaGina]

Yes, if she is unsure as to how you would react or afraid of what her friends might say if they knew

[shikashika]

yeah, maybe she is afraid of showing interest in case it isn't reciprocated

[BeStrongBeHappy]

if she is really really shy... but usually if that is the case, taking some time to talk to her and get to know her might help her relax.

 

but if is she is being rude or is showing interest in other people but not you, then it either means she is not interested, or a game player.

[shikashika]

I have really liked guys.. gotten to know them.. but absolutly petrified of them finding out because what if they didn't like me back.. then our 'friendship' would be ruined

 

sounds silly.. but it answers your question.. that yes sometimes someone can be interested but not show it..

 

I've done that a few times..

 

even when there really wasn't much friendship

 

how do you mean she doesnt' act interested?

[laboheme]

I've been guilty of doing that back in high school. When I liked someone, I was too afraid to acknowledge their existence; plus, I thought that flirting would somehow make me slutty and equate me with certain girls who had a reputation. So from the side it looked like I was ignoring the object of my affections completely, while in reality I was clinging to his every word and action.

[Batya33]

Yes, she just might not be emotionally or otherwise available to act on her interest at that time.

[hosswhispra]

is it possible that a girl likes you but shows NO interest at all??

 

Yes.

 

She could be so shy that she can't even bear to look at you (of course in a good way). How do I know, you ask? Cause I've been that girl.

[rodney]

we have known each other for more than 1 year now, we were really good friends. Last year on March she TOLD me that she loved me and she garanteed (yeah she said it's garanteed) that we would get together, she gave me hope..but nothing happened because she started to act strange towards me..

now she talks to me but I don't know if she's interested..I can't see any signs from her body language...is it possible that she still likes me but not showing it?

She has confidence in her self and she's not a shy girl but I don't know maybe she is when it comes to relationships..

[rodney]

if she is really really shy... but usually if that is the case, taking some time to talk to her and get to know her might help her relax.

 

but if is she is being rude or is showing interest in other people but not you, then it either means she is not interested, or a game player.

 

she doesn't show interest in other guys when I there, but she does mention Famous guys she think are attractive when she knows I'm around

[Batya33]

we have known each other for more than 1 year now, we were really good friends. Last year on March she TOLD me that she loved me and she garanteed (yeah she said it's garanteed) that we would get together, she gave me hope..but nothing happened because she started to act strange towards me..

now she talks to me but I don't know if she's interested..I can't see any signs from her body language...is it possible that she still likes me but not showing it?

She has confidence in her self and she's not a shy girl but I don't know maybe she is when it comes to relationships..

 

Watch the feet - what she does - not the lips - what she says. I am not sure why she said it was guaranteed you would get together - why not right then?

[rodney]

Watch the feet - what she does - not the lips - what she says. I am not sure why she said it was guaranteed you would get together - why not right then?

 

she wanted to wait bcause she didn't want to rush things

 

she usually asks how I am, how my day has been..nothing heavy just causal stuff

[Batya33]

I see. Well it depends if you believe that she didn't want to rush things in the interests of a future for the two of you or for some other reason (i.e. she was not that interested and was trying to stall).

[rodney]

so you're saying that I should move on?

[Batya33]

I most cases I would think that she is just not that interested in you but it depends as I posted how you interpret her comments.

[rodney]

can I get her interest level higher or is it over?

[Altruist]

we have known each other for more than 1 year now, we were really good friends. Last year on March she TOLD me that she loved me and she garanteed (yeah she said it's garanteed) that we would get together, she gave me hope..but nothing happened because she started to act strange towards me..

now she talks to me but I don't know if she's interested..I can't see any signs from her body language...is it possible that she still likes me but not showing it?

She has confidence in her self and she's not a shy girl but I don't know maybe she is when it comes to relationships..

 

She told you that she loved you. Now she expects you to take the lead in the relationship. If you don't she will feel that you don't love her in return. No wonder she is acting strange.

[rodney]

yeah but that was last year, march..

[Altruist]

yeah but that was last year, march..

 

That doesn't change anything.

[rodney]

so what should I do to get her?

- we don't talk to each other as much as we used to

and when we do talk, usually she is the one that starts the conversation.