Cum too fast from Handjob

[1sttimeandnervous]

am really embarrased about this and don't know what to do. My gf gave me my first hj and a came in liike 30 seconds. i didnt think too much of it since it was my first and you know im not used to it. well ive gotten three since then and each time i cum within a min. this is really bothering me and i dont know why this is. i feel that i just get to excited even before she touches me that when she does...i just explode. what shuold i do? i want to have at least a little control over when i cum. ive tried the whole think of your grandma thing but nothing works. please help.

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[Mythical_Suicide]

Your girl is good at what she does.

Seriously, don't worry about cumming so quick from a hand job my bf cums within a minute as well but during actual intercourse he can last for awhile and his explanation is its just a different sensation and feels good so you get off alot quicker.

[Blackhawk2009]

its probably the fact that your getting a handjob that makes u cum faster...especially if u have'nt gotten it a lot

[Peckle]

to make if take longer for you to cum, masterbate more often to get more used to the sensation. Also, you can masterbate, and then just before you feel like you're getting close to orgasm, stop for a little while, and then start again and do the same thing.

[TonyMar75]

First, my friend, consider yourself lucky you're with a woman who wants to please you in this way. Then, be thankful you're with one, as Mythical said, who is so good at it. Finally, my bet is she's thankful that it happens so fast, because she KNOWS she's pleasing you, and let's face it, that action gets tiring after a while.

 

Are having actual intercourse with her? I get the feeling the answer is no, but if so, do you climax that soon? That might be a little more of an issue, because it means she's probably not being fulfilled.

 

If not, don't worry about it! Enjoy the pleasure, then ask her what you could do to make HER happy.

 

And by the way, don't cut down on that pleasure by thinking about your grandma. That takes all the fun and purpose out of sex, as far as I'm concerned. Let it be completely blissful, no matter how soon you climax...

[shep88ner]

dont worry too much about it...sometimes it takes me a very long time to orgasm from a handjob...which i actually think would be worse than doing it too fast. because after a while its kinda like..."alright, just do it already!" lol

[Zaphod]

Your girl is good at what she does.

 

hahahahaha

[Cyprian]

HERE IS THE ANSWER: There is nothing wrong with you.

 

1) If you want to be able to last longer to 'impress' your girlfriend:

 

What you need to do is simply masterbate once about an hour or so before she gives you a HJ. Then by the time its her turn it will take a bit longer! (Might also ache you down there a little bit though)

 

2) If you want to get the most pleasure and passion out of your intimate relationship with your girlfriend:

 

Just deal with the fact that you will cum within a minute or so...when you get older you will change, although maybe only slightly...

[Locke2121]

Ah but what a nice ache!

 

A pre-handjob masteration session should really prolong it though!

[EvaGina]

I wouldnt worry about it

seroiusly

my valentines sex lasted far less than a minute

it just shows shes doing the trick

[i1dr]

How did you last so long is what I want to know!

 

Give it until about fifty times (next month and you will get used to it more - then she will probably get sore arms.

[kr356]

i would love it if my boyfriend came in under a min of giving a handjob, more then 5 mins of handjob only and i'd be telling him to finish himself off.. but we dont relayl do handjob only anymore

[g1234567890h]

Well you're lucky because I don't even come from handjobs. It actually takes me about half an hour for me to come from a blowjob. I last about twenty to forty minutes through acutal intercourse, which makes for some pretty long and intense sessions, but my girlfriend likes it and I just come when I'm ready.

 

Don't worry about controlling it. I find that after you've come once it will take you longer the next time you have an erection, which makes for some pretty fun sex.