dragon26 Posted September 2, 2003 Share Posted September 2, 2003 My boyfriend and I have been dating for year and living together for the last 3 months. Its is abundantly clear to me that this relationship is not going to work out and I've made the decision to move out. Now, I need some practical advice on how to do this. Do I make arrangements and then tell him or talk to him first? I know the news is not going to go over well and neither one of us can handle stress filled weeks with me sleeping on the sofa. I wouldn't be leaving him high and dry - he can afford the apartment himself and already owns all the necessary guy items to live. I'm not proposing that I move out in the middle of the day and leave a note for him to find when he comes home from work either. All I need to know is - is it wrong for me to make my arrangements before I tell him? I'm really interested in what's best for both of us, the long drawn out approach or the band aid? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewlywedinMD Posted September 2, 2003 Share Posted September 2, 2003 Given my current situation, I would really want the person moving to be upfront and tell me before doing anything. Is there a chance that you can get back together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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