aymee_lee Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Just wondering what people's experiences were... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicguy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 It usually takes awhile for me to say i love you cuz I've been burned in the past Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MacGyverRI Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 When you get that warm and fuzzy feeling when you're with them and can't wait to be with them again when their away. You also tend to brag about them a lot when you're in love. With me it's usually 10+ dates depending on the person since most don't make it past 3-5 dates because I don't like to lead a girl on and I'm NOT looking to be a perpetual dater. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GalaxyC Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I've never said it to anyone (except family). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Well it took me a while cause i dunno i guess i tryed to wait till the right moment you know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newo Ikkin Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 It'll be one year on New Years Day since I said it to my SO! *smiles* We'd been seeing each other since early November, so..around two months? It was so right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portage Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Usually from 6-9 months in my case!! Just make sure you're not mixing up that loving feeling with lust & chemistry. It soon fades... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverManic Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 It took me 4 years and then we got married. He was just my friend before and now he's the greatest thing in my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Straightj06 Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 in my new realtionship its on my toungue, but i dont say it as i dont want to come accross too strong. Plus i keep comparing the "love" i had with my "first love" and it isnt as strong . . . yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shorty20 Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I think it took us about two months to say it. It was a few days before he had to leave to go to his base (he's in the army) ... 5 months later we're married!! As for saying I love you, I don't really have a time frame... I say it when I know i love the person.. when it's not just a feeling or emotion, but I truly love and care for that person.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amtjrtcet Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I think we'd been together for 5 months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharLit Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 first serious boyfriend: 3 or 4 months, I'm not sure anymore exactly, twas a long time ago... love of my life: 10 days but that was 10 days after we found out we'd been in love with each other for 6 months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arwen Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I have said to two people in my life, a long term ex (four years off and on, he said it after a year) and my current man (he said if after a month but we already were friends for 2 years before getting together). I said it to my current man this summer I think. I wasn't ready but it didn't matter to him, he just wanted me to know. Ilse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daligal83 Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 First bf: He said it after 2 weeks. I didn't really know what to do so I said it back...but looking back I definitely wasn't in love after 2 weeks. Curren bf: He said it at around 3 months and I had completely fallen in love with him probably about a month before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J6hn Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 My partner and I took around three months. The first time we said it we were on the top of a huge cliff watching the sun set into the ocean. It was beautiful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
handsdown Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 The love of my life took about a week for us because we are crazy We've been together for over a year and I still loves him just as much! To be honest, I love him more! in the past I'd say about a month or two? I can't even remember because it wasn't very significant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caro33 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 I think it was 3 weeks before he said it, and I reciprocated. I think I also said something like he seemed to be the one for me. We had both been around the block and realised when we found each other that we'd found something pretty special. I'm not sure how much we really really meant it at the time, because logically I doubt the possibility of truly loving someone after 3 weeks, but the point was 'from what I've seen, i'm blown away, this is wonderful'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xprincessbugx Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 5 years... you gotta be sure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulapalooza Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 It took me a little over a month. I know it seems short, but I've never felt this way about anyone (even with my first "love"). This time, I feel it's real and thereforeeee worth to say. The last guy I was with, it' took six months to say it, but I'm unsure if I ever really felt it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nadine_3110 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 I like the answer someone gave about the fuzzy feeling inside. That sounds about right. Well I've had that fuzzy feeling for about three months now but I don't want to be the one to say it first. We've been dating for 8 months. He's never said it to anyone, neither have I. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EvaGina Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 I could say it to him now and mean it... we have only been back together for a few weeks. However, we did date years ago and we have known eachother for years... My ex and I said it after a few days, and totally meant it, he is a very cautious guy so it was a really big deal for him. The last guy I dated, I said it to after a few weeks or so, but I was on drugs at the time and didnt mean it like ~that~... it wasnt a particularily healthy reletionship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissTee Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 It was somewhere between 3-4 months when we said it. He told me he loves me for the first time when we went out one night and he was very drunk! But the next morning when we woke up... He said it again and a couple of days later I said it too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizziebee Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 Just wondering what people's experiences were... Whenever the feeling comes to me. I have said it first plenty of times and found that the man was hesitant, although I never asked why. but life is too short to hold back feelings of love...especially in this day and age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spikespiegel Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 With my most recent ex, I told her after dating for about 2 months, and knew each other for a month before that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
run_little_rabbit Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 We had been hanging out a lot for about 2 months before we started dating, and about 4 months into that I told him I loved him and he says "ohhh you beat me to it... I thought I'd say it first!" Before I said it, it had been practically bursting out of my mouth for the longest time but I was so nervous, til I thought "enough of this..." and blurted it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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