medodeseparar Posted December 26, 2011 Share Posted December 26, 2011 Hi, I am going the same way here, I know I am about 5 years later on this conversation but I just wonder how are you doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medodeseparar Posted December 26, 2011 Share Posted December 26, 2011 Same way here marty73, same way. I don't know what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardnergirl2 Posted January 2, 2012 Share Posted January 2, 2012 Have you and your wife sought counseling? You never know. It could help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Profile Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 why did u guys marry?if u didnt like her?and the sooner u tell her the truth.the better.honesty is,IS ,the best policy. OR. now since u have progressed with the woman u married,u must somehow try to forget this new girl u love.because after all.u already have something.and u will create a mess.atleast allow the kids to grow up.and till then.do not be in contact with the one u love.try rebuilding marriage.and the one u love she will have to bear the wrath of being the other one in someone's(ur wife)life.so till ur kids mature.try communicating with ur wife.let her know that how u feel.give her suggestions.tell her to understand.tell her that u will help her.and till then do not contact this other lady.and see if u can fall in love with ur wife.this way u will stop a huge tragedy.in the lives of 5 people.as such u havent progressed much in ur new love life.and maybe u fell in love because u were not that involved with ur wife. i suggest u to rethink the reasons u married her.and fall in love with her again.encourage happiness.and in years when are kids are mature enough and u two are going along well.then no option.else.u can separate.but u must let ur wife know the fact that u r very unhappy and the marriage is in trouble.and that the reason u r together is kids.and u would want to live hsppily together.and that she should understand u and support u and change her ways.else you will have to divorce.(i dont think u should tell her about the other lady).communication is essential. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Betterwithout Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 old thread, never mind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 Thread is over ten years old and the OP has never returned. Thread Closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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