what makes ladies hot and wanting sex?

[shep88ner]

what is a good way to get a girl really hot and wanting sex? i heard being spontanious is a good way...any thoughts?

 

so i guess take this scenario...ladies, your doorbell rings and your boyfriend walks inside like a normal day, what could he do to get you really going?

[aymee_lee]

My bf and I are semi long distance (a couple of hours). So, after a week or so of not seeing him, just his presense is enough

 

But other than that, there's nothing really that I can specifically think of, it's just if I'm in the mood, or my bf is. Sorry!

[bitbit]

eery girl is different. apparently, some girls like their ears to be kissed or sucked on, but it just grosses me out.

[TheRedQueen]

Every girl gets turned on by different things, the goal though for you, is to make her wet. If she's wet, she'll be revved and ready to go.

 

Many men make the faulty assumption that women get turned on by romantic gestures, when in fact that's usually not the case (romantic gestures stimulate an emotional response, not necessarily a sexual one). We are sexual creatures, let's face it, we wouldn't be here today if our ancestors didn't love, and frequently engage in sex, sex, sex and more sex.

 

Women are turned on by the thought of being teased, touched and penetrated in a certain type of way, and often times by a certain type of male.

[Survictor]

Lots of kissing and touching. Kisses and touches should be gentle initially. Clitoral stimulation and vaginal caresses will usually get most ladies hot. More aggressive touches if she is open to that but not initially; but I do agree that each lady is different and what one likes, another may loathe.

[Princess18]

I get turned on by him taking the lead. confidence is such a turn on. not letting me say no to anything. pulling my clothes off etc and pushing me on the bed. Its all in the body language as well. the eyes. the way he looks at you and acts around you...he doesnt have to say anything.

[applepie]

I always get turned on my a long passionate kiss before a word is even spoken. A phone call during the day letting me know he can't wait to see me gets me excited.

 

And while romantic gestures certainly don't turn me on, if they are not used, they turn me off.

[justpaisley]

Take out the trash, take care of the baby while I go shopping, do the dishes, keep the laundry in the basket.

 

Sorry - probably not what you were looking for

[rocio]

eery girl is different. apparently, some girls like their ears to be kissed or sucked on, but it just grosses me out.

 

Me too. Makes my skin crawl.

 

If a guy is rough with me it will usually turn me on. Like if he pushed me on the couch, slapped me (playfully, of course), and tore off my shirt, I would be begging for sex.

 

A full-body message always does the trick too.

[SexySadie7]

And while romantic gestures certainly don't turn me on, if they are not used, they turn me off.

I agree with ya.. the guy can be the best lover in the world.. but if he acts like he's not interested in me.. or does nothing romantic in the week before I see him.. my libido drops drastically for him.

If he calls me frequently just to let me know he's thinking about. then I'm dying to jump in bed with him again.