TakingtheBlame Posted December 5, 2006 Share Posted December 5, 2006 So...when you've been dating a guy for a relatively short amount of time (a month) and one day he tells you that he doesn't think he can ever be in a relationship or get married because he needs his space and he doesn't want you to take all of this as a rejection, and the next day tells you he doesn't think you and he are compatible....which of these two reasons is more likely? Is it really him...or is it me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted December 5, 2006 Share Posted December 5, 2006 Its pretty much saying, "we gave it a try and it didn't work". It doesn't have to be either of you, it could very well be that you aren't right for each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayar Posted December 5, 2006 Share Posted December 5, 2006 It doesn't matter. It's both of you. You aren't right for one another. Don't fall into the trap of EVER thinking it's you (that you're not good enough) and at the same time don't blame the other person and harbor resentment. The point is, he doesn't want to see you anymore and thankfully he told you NOW rather than 2.5 years from now on the day he was supposed to sign your apartment lease with you... Ummm.... Not like that's, uh, happened to ME or anything... LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kadvati79 Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Its pretty much saying, "we gave it a try and it didn't work". It doesn't have to be either of you, it could very well be that you aren't right for each other. Wow, you're my new personal hero. What a succinct way of putting it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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