32 -A Cup (yeah, 'minus' A)...

[jengh]

I would gladly give you 3/4 of mine!!! I'm a 34DDD. completely naturally. It SUCKS! They are so heavy, get in the way of everything. Instead of "elbowing" people, I "boob" people. If I had the choice of being super flat and slim or super huge boobs and average-ish....I would choose the former in a second.... why is it we always want what we can't have? Even when I do lose weight, the boobs stay exactly the same...which makes me look even more out of proportion!!! I had to start wearing a bra in 4th grade!!!

[jengh]

A great online bra-retailer for women of ANY size:

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seriously...if you're huge like me, they have bras that aren't in style for 60yr old women. They're actually sexy and stylish (a little on the expensive side though)... and if you're smaller chested, there are TONS and TONS of cute ones..

[texami]

jen... I could have written BOTH those posts!!!

 

being big has been nothing but a burden... it made me scared some times in college (creeps coming up to me, etc.) and very self conscious. i wear clothes that hide my figure... lots of time people are SHOCKED when i wear a bathing suit. too bad cause i love to swim. i'm in good shape otherwise (gone up and down some with having kids... boobs always stayed huge no matter what).

 

the lesson is that we all have things that we would change. when i let it get me down, it does. when i try to think positively, i feel great about myself!

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

I'm a 36C, size 4 to 6. I look SO GOOD, apparently. But life is rotten anyway whatever shape you are, so why stress over it? Seriously?

 

Now for my compassionate side to come to the fore . . .

 

I know what it is to hate one's body. I hate mine. However, it is quite a ludicrous enterprise that only imprisons you. And, on a personal note, I love stick thin women (as a bisexual).

[MagicToilet]

Hmm not one male has replied to this... I personaly do not like huge boobs, but I would not like my GF to have smaller breast then me either. I think for most men a handful or C cup would be ideal, I may be wrong though

[Baby Carrot]

I would not like my GF to have smaller breast then me either

 

Do you have male boobs Toilet?

[RelaxByWater84]

Don't worry I'm the same size as you. And I understand your frustration about trying to find bras. I tried to find a strapless bra and could not find one in my size. And when you don't have the money to go to VS its exasperating. And it's hard to find formal dresses with the size I am. However I can slip through crowds easily. Also I can wear lower tops and get away with it.

[unface]

Go figure. I´d understand if I was 12. But I´m in my 20´s and they never grew.

 

Like, what's wrong? Amputated, alien, pretty boy, undeveloped freak, all that comes to my mind everytime I look down. And there´s my pic in case you wonder what am I whining so much about.

 

This suck! Why can´t I be like the rest of the kids?

 

DUDE! WHERE´S THE CONTENT OF MY BRA!

 

That's what's great about being a girl. No boobs? No problem... just buy a pair.

 

Put the picture back up!

[Baby Carrot]

COFFEE GIRL:

Yeah, there are in fact bra's but only the expensive ones fit. I once found a really nice strapless one that did fit, but that was cuz it was on sale. Dang.

 

UNFACE:

That's what's great about being a girl. No boobs? No problem... just buy a pair.

 

That's what's great about being a RICH girl. I personally can't afford them. Do you see my drama now?

 

 

Put the picture back up!

 

I didn't remove it man, the moderators did.

[unface]

Most plastic surgeons have financing options available, and they aren't really THAT expensive. You don't have to be rich to get yourself a nice rack.

[bitbit]

PINK by vicky's has a lot of really cute stuff, all which comes in A's. they have lace, they have basic demi's... all that stuff. you can always find it. and not to speak out against the ladies with bigger boobs, but think of what comes along with having them. i've heard you have to opt for bras with wider straps so you don't get permanent imprints in your shoulders from the straps. they can also cause back problems. not to mention, A's will hardly ever sag later in life.

[Daddy Bear]

if you have a nipple on either side of your chest, and they respond agreeably to human touch, then you already have a "nice rack". don't let anyone fool you into thinking there's something wrong with you. there's not.

[TheRedQueen]

I happen to have moderately large breasts, and I've always viewed them as being somewhat of a nuisance.

 

It sucks to be registered and classifed as, "an asian girl with abnormally large breasts."

 

The way that some men stare, you'd think that they just started weaning.

[Baby Carrot]

Most plastic surgeons have financing options available, and they aren't really THAT expensive. You don't have to be rich to get yourself a nice rack.

 

Maybe that's in USA. But Im in Latinamerica and here you have to be rich indeed to get urself a nice rack. That kind of fancy proccedures are only availabe for the wealthy nobility. Just so you can have an idea, I'd have to save my payments of 8 months to afford it. Get a grip buddy.

 

if you have a nipple on either side of your chest, and they respond agreeably to human touch, then you already have a "nice rack". don't let anyone fool you into thinking there's something wrong with you. there's not.

 

Awwww, thank you so much pudding!

 

The way that some men stare, you'd think that they just started weaning.

 

Ur hot Red Queen, what were you expecting? Is not only about the size of ur breasts

[dil]

Who gives about the size of one's rack. If a guy cares more about the size of my rack than me he isn't even worth any of my time in the first place

 

-feminazi.

[applepie]

Maybe that's in USA. But Im in Latinamerica and here you have to be rich indeed to get urself a nice rack. That kind of fancy proccedures are only availabe for the wealthy nobility. Just so you can have an idea, I'd have to save my payments of 8 months to afford it. Get a grip buddy.QUOTE]

 

Forgive me if I'm mistaken but isn't is all about having a great butt in Latin America? I was under the impression that many men their were indifferent to breasts, whether small or large.

 

I wouldn't trade my big boobs for anything in the world. They have had a huge impact on the way I'm able to defend myself, that has rubbed off on other areas of my life (long story).

 

That said, not everyone can have big boobs. The majority of men I have spoken to and polled say they would prefer small but real boobs as opposed to large but fake. Eg. Kate Hudson VS Pamela Anderson.

 

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I think more men would be physically attracted to Kate, but see Pamela as more of a dirty fantasy figure.

 

Basically, you're stuck with what you've got, unless you want to fork out and get some big silicone hooters. By the sounds of it, you have far better things to spend your money on.

[Satsuma]

Im a 30A/32A, and i know how you feel it always puts me down to see people who have bigger and can wear all these great tops which look good. My boyfriend hasnt seen them without the bra or anything but he says that they are 'gorgeous' but i just cant make myself believe it, im desperate to have bigger because i believe it will put my confidence up but i know i wont go for plastic surgery because its pointless, it can cause health issues. And ive heard rumours that going on the pill can make them bigger, does anyone know if this is true? Plus does diet have anything to do with how big or small they are because i have a bad diet, its full of junk and abit of fruit and vegetables and im not sure if having a bad diet can effect them from growing. Im naturally slim and a little curved and ive been told that i have a great body but i just dont believe it because its the breasts that are putting me down.

[afonselaca]

I'm a B cup and only because I had kids. Trust me, I've spent most of my adult life in the A department.

 

I did pick up a pair of Cleavage Cupcakes recently. They are gel bra inserts and depending on how you position them -under each breast or to the side- varies the resultant shape. They are kinda fun to wear.

 

[charley]

Some guys do like slim women. Many do. Also, some guys either don't care about breast size, or maybe even like small ones.

 

One good thing about small breasts is that they probably won't ever get saggy. So later in life you'll likely look better than most large breasted women because they will often start to sag in their 30s or 40s.

 

I really don't have any strong preferences about breasts, except that they not sag to much. I like slim women for being slim and shapely women for being shapely.

[NeverMore]

Big, little, its just blobs of fat plastered to your chest. Mine get in the way.

 

Lol, mine get in my way too.

[itsallgrand]

I saw your pic and I think you have a beautiful body. Slightlybent had it correct: don't be fooled that you need to be some certain shape or something to be desired and gorgeous.

 

So I'm on the other side of the spectrum, and it's not perfect either. My bits n pieces need to be strapped up, contained, molded and moved just so I can be comfortable and not look ridiculous in regular clothes.

 

C'mon, let's forget about all this and just admit that we are a big bunch of beautiful women with differences already. We are all good just the way we are. F anyone who says differently.

[Baby Carrot]

Forgive me if I'm mistaken but isn't is all about having a great butt in Latin America? I was under the impression that many men their were indifferent to breasts, whether small or large.

 

Errrr, nope. They drool with all those porn sites with huge boobed girls. Also, is their ideal of beauty. If you look like one of them, you're hot, and also, a hooker. If you don't, you're green garbage.

 

 

They are gel bra inserts and depending on how you position them -under each breast or to the side- varies the resultant shape. They are kinda fun to wear.

 

That things would be just a sad reminder of what I don't have. I don't want that kind of souvenirs in my drawer. So depressing.

 

 

One good thing about small breasts is that they probably won't ever get saggy.

 

Yeah, I guess that's the only advantage.

 

I saw your pic and I think you have a beautiful body. Slightlybent had it correct: don't be fooled that you need to be some certain shape or something to be desired and gorgeous. C'mon, let's forget about all this and just admit that we are a big bunch of beautiful women with differences already. We are all good just the way we are. F anyone who says differently.

 

Awwww thank you so much sista' ! Although I still think it was kind of unfair the pic to be removed... They should remove barbiegurl87 avatar too in that case!! LOL kidding.

[rocio]

Please don't even consider getting fake ones. Any surgery is risky, and implants often erupt and have other problems. Don't risk your health and well-being to look like some porn star. I know you say you can't afford it, but even if you could...

 

They don't look good either. I once slept with a woman who had fake ones and it totally grossed me out to the point where I couldn't touch them. They don't look or feel real.

 

You think that having a porn star body will get you further in life until you get one. And then suddenly it sucks to be treated like a porn star. Be happy with your negatives. They are sexy.

[Baby Carrot]

OK, what´s up with guys and boobs? Big, small, unexistent, boob´s just tickle male psyche don´t they?

 

They just keep asking about the so called picture OMG !

 

Like they don´t see enough in TV, ads, magazines, cinema

 

OK, again for everybody, I posted a BW picture of my bra (with me in it ) in the original message and moderators removed it "for my own safety".

 

Now, I´d post another picture of my torso IN A SWEATER -hello-, but they may kick my butt outta here for posting immoral dangerous things again so I better

 

Use ur imagination guys!

 

Greetings.

 

PS. If you really have no idea how does a flat chested girl looks like, well, try and remember the body of a prepubescent girl (don´t feel dirty, this is just for technical purposes of accurate advice LOL) and there you have me.

[Baby Carrot]

I once slept with a woman who had fake ones and it totally grossed me out to the point where I couldn't touch them. They don't look or feel real.

 

Hey Amber, so what attracted you from that woman in the first place?

 

How come didn´t you notice they were fake and thereforeeee, were gonna gross you out?

 

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BTW does anyone here know how does a breast with an implant in feel like? Is it really gross and feels like you have some kind tumor stucked there or something? Is it really that weird? If it´s really that crappy why are they so popular and so many women feel much better about themselves once they got them? Woud getting implants turn me into a shallow disgusting gross unsexy witch?