Cooperstown Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 I'm currently with someone who "won't do it" "doesn't enjoy it" but she still will from time to time because she knows I like it and that in turn makes her like it. Just don't pressure her and I bet you will find her going down on you atleast occasionally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsley Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 My guy doesn't move or make sounds... o.O Is that bad? Oh no am I like horrible at it or something??? No - my boyfriend is incredibly quiet and still. First time I did it I wouldn't have known if not for certain factors Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swtbtrflydreams Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 Mine too is also VERY quiet. Its not so much noise but breathing patterns Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsley Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 Yeah...or eyes. Which can be difficult to take note of when you're eye level with his hips. Keeps me trying harder though, I'm determined to make it impossible for him to stay so quiet!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swtbtrflydreams Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 yeah I also am very quiet and his goal was to make me...not so quiet. He has achieved his goal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happywithher Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 my goal is to make her leg twitch i love her clit its great Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hope_full Posted June 14, 2007 Share Posted June 14, 2007 I never minded doing it but my when ever I did it to my ex he never came and I tried everything I mean everything and still nothing. I didn't know if it was me or him so I just stop giving him head now were not together anymore and so i haven't give in a LONG time and scaredn that it was me and i just don't what to do when I’m with another guy. Was i bad at doing it or was it him. Is it normal for a guy to not come during a BJ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimmie11479 Posted June 14, 2007 Share Posted June 14, 2007 I love do it! I have you be comfortable with the person. Although, I don't swallow or even let it in my mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zampotne Posted June 14, 2007 Share Posted June 14, 2007 thankyou i thought i was the only one to know this i have performed and received from both genders and love both as for pulling out and her swallowing i love this and she does as well on occasion we will make out before she swallows which we both enjoy a lot if you like the taste of cum i highly recomend it its an amazing feeling I've always wondered, who gives better BJs-- gay men or straight women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sxcsta Posted June 14, 2007 Share Posted June 14, 2007 yhyh i love doin it its ace! its very intimate having your partner inside you and if your enjoying it then so are they xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happywithher Posted June 18, 2007 Share Posted June 18, 2007 I've always wondered, who gives better BJs-- gay men or straight women? from my experience its been straight women i have always gotten off a lot sooner and more intense but thats just my experience i have been told that i perform it on males better than females and females have said i performed on them better than other females maybe im just talented but whose judging in all honesty it entirely depends on the person doing it not the gender and sexual orientation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SexySadie7 Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Well, i'm str8, so i won't know and would never ever dream of getting sex from another woman, but thanks, happywither for this comment, "from my experience its been straight women i have always gotten off a lot sooner and more intense but thats just my experience" I always try to give my man a pleasurable experience when giving head. I think it's sort of an art form and you really have to WANT to do it, not just do it to please him. It's a strange thing but i just think the penis is such a pleasurable thing to fool with, I love its texture, the skin is so silky and it's so responsive, and then getting a man off, wow, what a power trip. I love it. Maybe cuz the first time I had oral sex, my bf made sure it was very pleasurable for me. He never insisted I give him some in return, but I wanted to, since he made oral sex such a great experience for me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SexySadie7 Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 I agree with whomever posted this, " agree with Survictor.I could only give a blow job to a man i love.Yes i would like to practice and men have offer their penis to me but i'll wait." I really have to feel a definite sense of intimacy that's much higher even than intercourse to want to give a bj to a guy! I just couldn't do it to a guy I wasn't really into... It's such an intimate and selfish act, i guess, i dunno. I also hate it when the guy wants a blowjob all the time but won't ever reciprocate. I feel basically that type of guy is a very selfish individual and i'm not sure i could have a relationship of any long term with such a person. I do feel that oral sex is integral to a healthy sex life, but that's just me. I like a variety of things, including cuddling, and manual sex too. I'd feel strange if I had a bf and we never had oral sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amanda121 Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 i dont mind it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TANKGRL Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 I LOOOOVE to give oral to my boyfriend and do a couple times everyday!! I like it in return as well and get it on occasion... but I don't even ask or need it. I love pleasing my boyfriend, he doesn't have to ask, he also feels weird to ask for it too! I think oral is fun but nothing to be pressured into. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brooke657 Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 I really don't like it. I think it's just disgusting. I mean I'll do it but I don't enjoy it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Undefined Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 People have to get used to doing it... it depends on their backgrounds- but I enjoy going down on my boyfriend... I mean it's not everyday you are able to have a penis in your mouth and make someone happy at the same time... it's a great feeling to know he's enjoying himself... and he gives me some pleasure back which I think is always a plus... so erm to be honest, I think your friend has found a rare girl- but there is nothing wrong with that... xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharLit Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 Oh yesh yesh yesh! LOVE doing it. love waking my boyfriend up with a BJ, love having it as regular part of sex. I love how much he enjoys it, but doing it is arousing to me too. trying to learn deep throat, but not much luck so far. Ah well, practice makes perfect, so I practice plenty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pesh Posted July 2, 2007 Share Posted July 2, 2007 At first, I thought oral was dirty and disgusting, and that i would NEVER ever do it. i was sort of intimidated by the whole thing, until i read something (on enotalone, as a matter of fact!) that put me at ease, and more willing to do it- "don't treat it as just a penis, but as an extension of the guy you're with." now that i've tried oral, its not as dirty to me anymore, and on the whole, i enjoy giving it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
l0velife Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 It's ok I enjoy doing it but not everytime. I have to be in the mood to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
l0velife Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 If I do it at a time I don't want to or I'm not really into it..my mouth starts hurting really quick..maybe because I want it to lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
l0velife Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Does anyone else's eyes water a little when you give head???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarLily Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Does anyone else's eyes water a little when you give head???? No allergies? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharLit Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Does anyone else's eyes water a little when you give head???? Only when I haven't gotten any air for an extended period Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tmp0620 Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 I don't think I'd ever ask a girl for head. I'm not sure what I've got against it. I guess I think of it as degrading or something. Wouldn't mind doing it for her though I don't think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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