Penn00Si Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 My girlfriend and I decided that we would take some time apart. However, I am using this time to detox myself from her completely, because I dont think the relationship is going to survive. We started an online blog and we've been both blogging about our days and so forth. However, after communicating with several people, I dont think that was such a good idea. I want to go without talking to her, but know its going to be hard. My plan is to totally cut all communication lines until I know for sure what I want to do. Should I inform her of my plans of NC or I should I just do it??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kekep Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 if you're going to do this, out of respect for the relationship and her, tell her you want space with no talking or other comm for x number of days/weeks/whatever. after that time, if you still don't think the relationship will work, meet up with her and formally break it off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 It appears you want to breakup with her, but you're dancing around it. If so, tell her it's over and let go. It's not fair to string her along. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bcuzitwasfun Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 Hi Penn00Si, In my opinion, since you both decided you need time apart, you don't have to tell her anything. Nothing. It will be hard not to talk to her. Since this was a mutual decision, and from what I read from you post, you don't want to talk to her. Since the blog was not such a good idea, I don't think that you should tell her anything. Start NC today! Good Luck! bcuzitwasfun 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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