sandra210 Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 my husband had a a 7 years ago , i made a decision not to bring it up but 2 weeks ago the women involved told my daughter of 17 meet your step daughter my husband always said there was no sexual contact but he said to my daughter the affair started after the baby was born . i feel my husband hasnt been honest and its hurting again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beec Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 I think that you need to think about what you want to believe. Do you want to believe him, about when it began, or her. She seems to have said something to harm him, imo. Why else would she have said this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 so the woman is claiming the child is his? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Siriana Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 How can you cheat without sexual contact? But also how can someone be so horrible to say to your kid something like that- it is not a conversation that you lead with your ex lovers child! She was way over the top. I suggest telling your husband what she said to your daughter - but don't blame him - just tell him how you're worried what effect it will have on your daughter and why does he think she said that? Say that in a concerned kinda way - not angrly. Choose to speak with your husband, otherwise she reached her goal - making mess and creating mistrust inyour family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandra210 Posted November 7, 2006 Author Share Posted November 7, 2006 it was my daughter who told my husband she had bottles it up for 2 wks .she went to the pub and they discussed it when they came home he told me but obviously drunk i tried to reassure her that it wasnt true and said we would discuss it the next day my husband has never mentioned it ifeel he has a duty to sort this out at the moment i feel absolutely gutted i would like to post a new thread in explaining the whole thing maybe it will get it off my chest thx for comments Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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