beebee Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 so he gave me a locket in the beginning of our relationship that he had from when he was a child... he said it meant everything to him and he wanted me to have it because i meant so much to him (im sticking my finger down my throat)... i realize now that the entire relationship was a lie and he has no clue what love is... i put it away in a box with all the other things he gave me... i didnt want them around me anymore... so much time has passed (2 yrs) and i dont know who to give them to and i dont want to throw them away... so what do i do with them?... also... i dont want the locket anymore... it represented a lie... what do i do?... send it back?... am i deluding myself into thinking that he will call?... im not sure what my motives are... i know (yes, i KNOW) i will never be with him again... im on a different path and i see my future... it is not with him and ive accepted that... i dont want the locket nor do i want the other things... so my fellow enotaloners... what do i do?... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 send them back to him - no need to enclose a note. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hosswhispra Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 send them back to him - no need to enclose a note. ^ I agree with DN. I feel good because I got to see Socks again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 if the entire relationship was a lie, how do you know the story about the locket wasn't a lie either? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForAnother Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 Hmmm be aware that sending it back will give him a conversation opening... meaning he might call you. It will also open up some emotions to him and wish to "see how things are going." I'd be wary of that... I dunno if I have the strength to send something of my ex's back to her... I would just chuck it. -ForAnother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 I'd send it all back, unmarked, no return address, and if he calls, hang up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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