betrayedgirl Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 I am interested to know what your priorites are? I am still learning alot about dating after being in two LONG term relationships and a few short term relationships. From what I have learned from them, my priorities are: 1. Honesty 2. Must respect me and others 3. Conservation flowing (even if its talking about getting new curtains) 4. Sense of humor 5. listening/paying attention 6. Non smoker 7. Chemistry and mutual attraction 8. Treat me right My last ex told me that kissing is HIGH on his priority and I think that is shallow. Just my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin T Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 Must be: a) Physically attracted to her b) Spiritually attracted to her c) Romantic, affectionate and kind That's basically it, summed up. Everything else branches out from one of those three major points. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 I may be picky but: She MUST be: Non-smoker Non-drug user Kind & understanding Compassionate Treat others with respect Honest from the beginning Trustworthy Can take care of herself Intelligent Financially responsible Very romantic Believe in marriage Good sense of humor Compatibility in: Emotional needs Communication Personal habits Life long goals Bonus if she: Loves sports Loves animals Passionate about cooking & food Multi-cultural Passionate & outgoing Fun loving With that said, physical attraction, it is important to a certain extend for me but it wouldn't also make me happy. I also don't look for the 'hottest' or 'prettiest' girls but believe a woman's beauty truly comes from within. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hateithere Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 What if you fall in love with a smoker? Can you really help who you fall in love with? Priorities are for when you are seeking out someone... I think sometimes though, you fall into someone. If I was actively seeking to be with someone I would want them to be: honest, easy going, forgiving, able to start up an intelligent conversation with the intention of me answering intelligently (just bc I have blond hair doesn't make me stupid), able to give up bad habits if things get serious... bad habits being: porn, drug use, strip clubs, slutty friends that are girls, guys that want him to do bad things... If a guy hits a girl, that should be end of relationship, there is no won't do it again... cheating can be forgiven up to a point... like once... if you are going to promise to be faithful, be faithful... partying of any kind should be done together!!! Then, there are no trust issues! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin T Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 The simplest solution to not end up "falling" in love with a smoker is to not date a smoker. If you don't see the person regularly in a romantic context, how would you end up "falling" in love with them? Can you help who you fall in love with? Of course. Just limit the amount of time you spend with that person. People don't just wake up one day and "love" another person. It takes time and work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrKadash Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 She must: -- Never beat around the bush Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocio Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 I don't really have any standards. If I like you, I'll hang out with you. And if you don't bug me, I'll continue hanging out with you. But I don't like people who smell bad or try too hard to impress. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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