axg275 Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Hi, I need some advice on where to go to find atractive girls and be able to talk to them without invading their space too much. Something like a bookstore. I just need some ideas. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stinkweed Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I believe I read somewhere (I think it was a thread here on enotalone), that the public library is a good place. Sorry if that didn't help much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostInMyThoughts Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I've always been a fan of meeting women at volunteer events. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chai714 Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Restaurants (employees), school (classmates), the gym (other members), charity event (what's hotter than a woman donating her time to a good cause?), volunteering at a hospital, coaching a sports team (daughters and sisters of kids you're coaching), Starbucks (you'll see that they get many regulars there and some baristas can be a good source too), friends (your friends have female friends, who also have friends), and many, many more. Women are everywhere - the only part you have to do is to be able to talk to them and learn how to approach them and handle them in a non-threatening manner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I think you can meet quality women any where, grocery stores, book stores, laundry mat, pretty much anywhere there are people you can meet women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stambler Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Grocery stores! I always get hit on there (especially if I have my 3 year old son with me!). My friend met his wife at a grocery store! Make it a point to go at the same time, same day if you see a regular you are intersted in! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dating Coach Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Hi, I need some advice on where to go to find atractive girls and be able to talk to them without invading their space too much. Something like a bookstore. I just need some ideas. Thanks If you keep feeling like you are an inconvienience to women then your lack of self confidence will show through, which will make it much harder to attract them. You should work on dismissing this feeling as if you are "invading their space" because it is always going to be a barrier for you when meeting women. Think about guys that you see who are good with women. Do you see them worry or show that they feel that they are "invading their space"? No. They just do what they have to do and in turn they attract more women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocio Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 Just talk to them. You don't have to hit on them. Just be friendly. And, as the other posters have pointed out, you can do this just about everything. I find the idea of going to a bookstore, or any other public place, just to meet women a little creepy. Just do what you enjoy, and while you're there, take the time to chat with people (including sexy women.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocio Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 everything=everywhere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin T Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 I agree. That IS definitely creepy. But having good social skills with women will come in handy anywhere you go! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
axg275 Posted November 13, 2006 Author Share Posted November 13, 2006 actually I dont mind approaching women and starting a converstaion. I just cant think of where to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turqoise Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 I got hit on at the pools which was disconcerting...but how about the beach? Take a frisbeeeeeeee! A guitar is even better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turqoise Posted November 14, 2006 Share Posted November 14, 2006 I got hit on at the pools which was disconcerting...but how about the beach? Take a frisbeeeeeeee! A guitar is even better. Or go jogging? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin T Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 Bars and clubs seem to be hotspots for picking up women of all varieties. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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