can a guy please comment

[elg]

Hi everyone

I am a 32 year old woman, who is hugely attracted to her boss at work, who is 45 (unattached). My question is this...is it true that when you like someone, you use their name a lot??? He forwarded me an email he had sent another manager..it was only 2 lines, but he used my name a lot, instead of just using it once then using "she" after that - it read really weird as it seemed like overkill re typing my name. Is this a good sign?

[Seraph]

I've never heard of that before, but it seems to make sense... At least to me I see more respect in using a name over a pronoun. But does he do that with every name?

[elg]

he doesnt seem to...I certainly havent seen him doing it before

[SweetTartz]

I really wouldn't read into that one...my boss (female) calls my name all the time...sometimes it's just out of habit...

 

My question is - would you put your job at jeopardy if you actually act on your attraction? Office romance are complicated.

[Ash]

When writing business style communications, I always use actual names rather than he/she to avoid any confusion. When I'm writing about somebody, I tend to use their name a lot whether its good or bad, or I like them or dislike them. But that's just me.

 

Look for other signs. Does he always check on your work,and say you're doing a good job for example?