BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 21, 2006 Author Share Posted August 21, 2006 thanks very much for all your help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Your are most welcome. Please keep us posted, and if you need help just ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 22, 2006 Author Share Posted August 22, 2006 grr...i dont know what to do...he has cut himself the past 2 nights(20 the first night, and 3 last night)...and i cut yesterday...and i cant tell him to stop cutting, cuz i cut, hes been to a therapist, it didnt help. and i know he doesnt want the authorities involved Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 I am sad that the two of you still cut. All we can do is give you advice. To change is the choice of you. Therapist can help if he want's it to help. His family obviously makes things worse for him. Does he have internet at home? Try to sign him up here. I suggest you really stop cutting, so you can help him to stop. Learn post #5, it can help, if you really want. You must show him that you are strong and please do not cut if he cuts, be cool when he cuts, tell him you will not cut again, that you want a future with him, that you want him to be strong and learn from the therapist. Do not push him to stop cutting (I do not push you either). Just say that you are sad if he cuts. Encourage to change, not blame if it there are setbacks. Please be strong and be patient and persistent! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 23, 2006 Author Share Posted August 23, 2006 i dont know if it was really him cutting that made me cut. i just felt really bad that day, and i was contemplating about jumping out of his car while on a bridge then jumping off the bridge on the way home from school(but when i finally got up the courage to do it, we were past the bridge) and the cutting helped me feel better...the pain of cutting through scar tissue(on my star) actually felt good, then re-cutting in the same place when the blood stopped flowing felt even better...do u know of anything i can do that gets my mind off of stuff and makes me feel better(that doesnt harm my body, physically or mentally)??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 Look here: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 23, 2006 Author Share Posted August 23, 2006 what on it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 Many things to read. Try this next time. Take an ice cube (a square one, not a round one) and crush it in your hand really hard. This will give you the same effects without the actual injury of cutting and risk of infection, scar, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 23, 2006 Author Share Posted August 23, 2006 ya, i read some alternative things like that earlier, havnt tried them out yet...i think i found like 5 different things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 OK, also tell him please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 23, 2006 Author Share Posted August 23, 2006 when i found them earlier, i didnt even think about using them for me, i jsut wrote them down so i could give it to him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 Yeah, I understand you but you have a life too. He refuses help about nutty granny, what you do if he does not make it? Keep us posted please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 24, 2006 Author Share Posted August 24, 2006 well...as of right now, i feel that if i lose him, i wont have anything left to keep me from being depressed, so i would probally commit suicide Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 I appreciate your feelings but don't wanna lose you because someone else screws up. I would not commit suicide if my gf passes away. Got kids and a life to look after. I thought about it many times, the right thing todo is to inform the authorities! He also could talk to his therapist, but the way I see it, he does not trust the therapist either. Or does he? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 25, 2006 Author Share Posted August 25, 2006 well right now i feel the only reason im still here is for him, my mom has been pissing me off alot, my sister is being a b**** and i dont know...im just not really happy...and it seems like every day it gets worse, i get more depressed and feel worse...the only person that i would care if they missed me/were hurt by me leaving is him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 25, 2006 Author Share Posted August 25, 2006 his therapist treats him like a 5 year old Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Tell us more about your family, mom and sis. Details please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 25, 2006 Author Share Posted August 25, 2006 i have to get off right now(mom is making me go to bed, even though i wont be able to fall asleep for a couple hours) and i wont be able to get on here for a couple days. but ill tell u more later Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 There are good and bad therapists, could your bf change therapists? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 27, 2006 Author Share Posted August 27, 2006 since his first therapist experience sucked so much, i doubt he will want to try it again(even with a different one), he said something about his mom was gonna get him to talk to one of her old co-workers, but her co-worker works w/ druggies and alcoholics, so he doesnt think that would help. what do u want to know about my family, mom and sis? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 27, 2006 Share Posted August 27, 2006 You seem to feel remote from you family. I want to know where your problems with your mom/sis are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 28, 2006 Author Share Posted August 28, 2006 i need more specific questions to be able to answer u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 28, 2006 Share Posted August 28, 2006 I want help you have more peace and understanding at home. Why your mom pisses you off? Does she work? How is she with her bf? How is she with your sis? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenBlackWolf Posted August 28, 2006 Author Share Posted August 28, 2006 i dont know why she pisses me off, i dont think she means to, but thats the result of alot of things she does/says. ya she works, but her bf's job sucks @$$, and it is making him pissed alot, and hes not getting much money, like he used to. what do u mean by "how is she w/ her bf" and "how is she w/ your sis" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nottoogreen Posted August 28, 2006 Share Posted August 28, 2006 Is your mom nice and happy with her bf or do they quarrel. Is your mom nice and happy with your sis or do they quarrel. Are Mom/sis/bf depressed ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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