ToxiC SweateR Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 Alright so here's the low down. Recently, i've been getting alot closer with the manager of a band i'm in for the last few weeks. We talk and/or see eachother basically daily, and share the very same intrests and likes. She's got a boyfriend who lives in NJ (we live in FL, mind you), and that's alright I guess. We're very much attracted to eachother; she's told me, and i've told her. However, we're both now at a stand still, confused on the long distance relationship at hand. I don't want to interfere with her current relationship or push myself onto her so to speak, but at times she questions the relationship she's in (i.e.; distance issue, physicallity issue, etc). She says that if she wasn't dating him right now, we'd more than likely be dating. What do I do? Do I just forget about this and move on? Do I wait it out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iceesnowbubble Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 Personally, i think you should back away and let her trully evaluate the relationship she is in. If she decides that she wants to let that relationship go and pursue things with you, then so be it. For the time being, however, i don't think it would be best for anything to happen between you two because of the other person involved. It already seems like things are a little shaky if she is telling you she has feelings for you when she is involved with someone else, so you should let her figure things out before you getting involved any further. Good luck with everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeawutever Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 I think that you should inform her that though you like her also, you can only be friends with her. It wouldn't be very convinient for you to get involved and risk her relation she's currently in. If she wants to carry it further than platonic friendship, then she would have to break up with her b/f. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToxiC SweateR Posted July 16, 2006 Author Share Posted July 16, 2006 I think that you should inform her that though you like her also As I've said, we've both already gotten that out of our systems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bethany Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 You already know the answer and it's that if she has a BF, you are not going to be hers so don't waste your time or invest any feelings until she dumps him. Find someone unattached. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fivek Posted July 17, 2006 Share Posted July 17, 2006 You RUN! What she could do to him she would do to you! RUN! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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