Shudder Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 lets say you're at a bus stop and you go up to a person to ask if they have been waiting there for long. after asking the question that person starts making small talk with you including asking where you're from, general q's of getting to know a person better.. are all these initial signs of a person having initial interest or just making small talk? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 Or they may just be happy to have someone to talk to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolaidnovel Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 It could be either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 I'd personally not read anything into that cept regular, usual small talk induced by boredom and lonliness coupled with the personality of an extrovert... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PRSOV Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 I agree with the others, sometimes people just get bored waiting for public transport. I wouldn't see anything of it unless she exchanged or asked for your cell number. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rowboat Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 yeah dont look to far into it. I get guys striking up convos when waiting or on public transport. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mba1 Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 lets say you're at a bus stop and you go up to a person to ask if they have been waiting there for long. after asking the question that person starts making small talk with you including asking where you're from, general q's of getting to know a person better.. are all these initial signs of a person having initial interest or just making small talk? not necessarily ... i do it all the time, especially if i'm bored or staning in line somewhere for a significant amount of time, i'll start chatting w/just about anyone if they seem open to it.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haven Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 Well.. at college, you meet a lot of people. Basically everyone I met would ask the same kind of questions: what's your name, where are you from, what's your major, etc. Were all of these guys and girls interested in me? Definitely not. So.. like someone else mentioned, unless cell #'s were exchanged, it was most likely just small talk while waiting for the bus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shudder Posted July 16, 2006 Author Share Posted July 16, 2006 cool thanks for the replies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skyblue1 Posted July 16, 2006 Share Posted July 16, 2006 Very hard to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dating Coach Posted July 17, 2006 Share Posted July 17, 2006 lets say you're at a bus stop and you go up to a person to ask if they have been waiting there for long. after asking the question that person starts making small talk with you including asking where you're from, general q's of getting to know a person better.. are all these initial signs of a person having initial interest or just making small talk? A person who is not interested in you romantically could just as easily do this as someone who is. thereforeeee it is not a good sign of interest. A good sign of interest is something more definite. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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