friscodj Posted July 4, 2006 Share Posted July 4, 2006 Thanks Man , I am pretty angry again. This is good for me. It means i will be cool in a couple of days. Some people on here beg to differ but anger is a part of the grieiving process and the grieving process leads to the salvation of healing. You're doing fine...keep it up... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 5, 2006 Author Share Posted July 5, 2006 its day 4 NC/ moving on again. almost 3 weeks broken up now. I have already forgotten his kiss. Wait - he hardly ever kissed me anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Coach Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 There you go girl! Use that humor to bring to light his short comings. RC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 6, 2006 Author Share Posted July 6, 2006 Well I am here - didnt think i would make it last night. But its day 5. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 7, 2006 Author Share Posted July 7, 2006 its day 6 of nc/moving on again. and i am already tired of all my girlfriends and late nights with bottles of wine. Just wanna move on. enough already. i realize you arent gonna call. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saltwatergirl Posted July 8, 2006 Share Posted July 8, 2006 I have already forgotten his kiss. Wait - he hardly ever kissed me anyway. LOL Greatness. Salt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Coach Posted July 8, 2006 Share Posted July 8, 2006 Are you on day 7? RC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 8, 2006 Author Share Posted July 8, 2006 Yep day 7 NC /moving on. Feet are sore from dancing all night with my girlfriends. Woke up this morning - well sad yes - but okay. its 3 weeks break up now. Thank you RC , for checking up on me!! I am going to vegas myself soon.! hows the weather? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Coach Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 HOT! We had a few T-Storms roll through and now it's hot and humid. RC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 10, 2006 Author Share Posted July 10, 2006 day 8 of nc/moving on wish i could just fall asleep early tonight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 10, 2006 Author Share Posted July 10, 2006 day 9 today silence... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Coach Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Silence is golden! You're doing great, keep moving forward. RC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 10, 2006 Author Share Posted July 10, 2006 So my ex just called my new boss ( a client of his , my ex reccomended me for this job , BUT they DO NOT know he was my boyfriend) anyway - I am sitting here and i can hear my new boss phone ring -" Oh Hey (insert human wrecking ball name) whats up, then he says Oh yeah we hired her , she is perfect. She is our new glue here. " Why is he checking up on me? Also my phone rang private this morning , i didnt answer they didnt leave a message.Maybe him , dont know. whatever. Its still Day 9 NC/ MOving on Just felt good to hear my new boss say all those nice things to him about me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lady00 Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Congrats on being so highly regarded at work. You are way better at keeping NC than I am. Keep it up and good luck with everything! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 11, 2006 Author Share Posted July 11, 2006 its day 10 nc/moving i am lieing to day to my new boss so i wont have to see him. Its just to early - if i see him i would be a million steps backwards. I realize i may have to see him so i am preparing myself for that situation , but for today - I am hiding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Coach Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Be strong and don't hide. You need to realize that he wants you and is now feeling very rejected, you have the upper hand. You on the other hand know who he is and how he is and you deserve better than that, so there will be more damage to him than you. Let him see how good you are doing and how great you look, shame he'll never have you again! RC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 11, 2006 Author Share Posted July 11, 2006 I understand your point RC , but i just cant face him yet. I amhere at work now - but i told my new boss , I mean , I ASKED him if it would be allright if i skip out on the meeting to take my mom to the doctors. He was totally fine , he said oh yeah dont worry this meeting isnt anything- its cool. So i feel okay about it. I cant believe its 10 days no contact. and this weekend will be 1 month broken up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 12, 2006 Author Share Posted July 12, 2006 its day 11 nc/moving on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Replaceme Posted July 13, 2006 Author Share Posted July 13, 2006 its day 12 today and i am outright BLUE! why hasnt he called me? why? i am very down today. I hate this - NC thing. I mean he is prob jumping for joy - i am miserable. why hasnt he called me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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