Better but it's still there

[thegoodgirl04]

Hi everyone,

It's been a while since I posted but I am doing better, getting over it almost.

But will the thoughts that creep in ever stop? He doesn't deserve to be thought about and I wish that I could just stop. I don't think about him that much, but those little thoughts that creep in are killers sometimes, especially when I'm alone. I am taking a break from dating, it's for the best really I'm only doing myself a favor by getting to know myself and figuring out what I want instead of what someone else wants. And to all of you who are coming here fresh from a break up, it gets better I promise. But the main thing is to get out there and stay active no matter what! Keep your mind off that ex cause they certainly are not thinking of you (harsh but true most of the time).

[ToxiC SweateR]

Eventually they'll stop. Try not to focus too much on the past, even if you've been dating for a long time. Focus on the future, focus on happy you'll be. Trust me, they'll stop.