alteer Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Ok I think I figured this out. I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex and thought it was because I didn't get any answers. He didn't tell me why it was over. It just was. I thought the problem was not having any closure and to me closure is getting answers as to why it didn't work. But now I don't think it's that so much. I think it's the rejection. I think that's the part that hurts so much. He rejected me. And that feels crappy. (just venting) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddess23 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 okay. rite now its going to feel awful and my breakup was like that too. he broke it off without any reason. even told me he thinks its just a faze and feels stupid for breaking it. closure is important...and it is partly why moving on is especially difficult for you. but the rejection does hurt and you're gonna ask all those why and what if questions. all i can say is dont and it does get better with time. think of it as a great experience and that you have grown as a person because of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
second_opinion Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Thats how I felt with my ex, You should talk to him, ask him why, you might feel weak for awhile, but once you know why he broke up with you, you will come to realise that he is an immature boy for keeping something so simple away from you. It will help you to let go and be a better person. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psylocke960 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Hey alteer...Don't feel crappy cuz then I'll feel crappy. But you know how it is for me too. I guess Alanis Morissette summed it up for me, "It was a slap in the face, how quickly I was replaced..." I feel even more like a reject. Don't worry...We'll both get through this! Be positive! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
serenity25 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I just tell myself it wasn't getting dumped- it was divine intervention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShaKe__ Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Nah,just getting dumped feels crappy.It doesn't really matter if they kick you out of the window or tell you "I still love you so much". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bachinit Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 yeah, it's been the same for me. Rejection and betrayal just sucks. period. I'm wondering when the pain is gonna stop, but oddly and in the meantime, I feel better about myself as a person. I've made positive changes and it feels good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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