lovecrazy Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 You found out your partner was cheating on you? No he isnt cheatin gon me.. A friend of mine and I were talking, and she recently found out her partner was cheating on her, and she kind of went off the handle. Yelling screaming, etc..... I honestly think I would get even. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I wouldn't. That's a waste of everyone's time. I'd just leave and find someone better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
piegirl Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Why get even it makes you no better than the person who cheated in the first place. I would leave them and find someone who gives me the respect that I deserve. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovecrazy Posted May 18, 2006 Author Share Posted May 18, 2006 I am not talking about sleeping with someone else...I did that...didnt make me feel any better....I had another cheat on me and did nothing but moved on... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Well..sleeping with someone or any other type of "revenge" is pointless..in my humble opinion. I'm glad you moved on and I hope your friend does the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I'd dump their butt and move on. Yup, I would be pissed, but how would you "get even"? By lowering your own standards? The best revenge is living well anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovecrazy Posted May 18, 2006 Author Share Posted May 18, 2006 Actually I would be as nice as possible...the best revenge like you said is living well. I did that stuff when I was younger. I mean I have grown up a little bit in a few years. I was just curious how certain people react. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
becallamjr Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I would let them know I know. End the relationship. Stop acknowledging their existence Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kellbell Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Any type of cheating is a dealbreaker for me. He would be gone. Getting even to me would be overcoming the situation and being happy. Cheaters are not worth contending with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Day_Walker Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I would be upset, but I would just let it go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeawutever Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Why waste your time and energy reacting to someone who doens't value you nor is willing to commit with you. Basically I just move on continue with my career, listen to music, and eat my favorite ice-cream, got no time for worthless screams nor tears. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 personally I wouldnt even bother confronting them, i'll just remove them from my life and ignor them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeawutever Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 personally I wouldnt even bother confronting them, i'll just remove them from my life and ignor them. Well yea, but they do need a reason why you call it quits. In that case a "Good Bye Cheater" along with a smile by e-mail or phone would sound good to me. By ignoring them and going on to NC, they might not figure out what's going on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freedom Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 i'll steal her rabbits and boil them in her pot so when she get home... mwhahahahahahaha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeawutever Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Revenge is for children!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Why would i tell them i know, nah they are not worth it. and them not knwing why would drive them nuts for a while. it is a little revenge. As they say " revenge is a dish served cold" So i will enjoy the dish for a while whilst they figure out what the hell is going on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Revenge is for children ... Then in this instant i am a child and loving it.. come to think of it... i would do things that would annoy the crap out of them, like put crap in their mail box first thing in the morning. put super glue on their door handles, Things that would inconvience then but not the hurt them. I suppose it think my aim is to have a little fun out of this crappy situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I'd show them the door and be that quiet hostile that is more scary than the screaming. I wouldn't do anything to them, but I would make it clear they are no longer a part of my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotcha Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 When I found out my husband was cheating I felt no desire for revenge. I was just very angry. First thing I did was tell him I knew and that I was leaving him. Secondly I got tested for STD's, and then again at 3 and 6 months. Third, I moved on. It wasn't hard after that. I lost all respect for him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agent1607307371 Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I found out a bf was cheating on me and did the whole forgiveness and trying to move past it thing and in the end it completely wasn't worth it. He took my forgiveness of the act as a type of validation and just did it again... now it is one of my strict limits and if i get cheated on they are out of my life completely. no exceptions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillady898 Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 I'de dump the guy and burn all of his stuff that he gave me. Not as revenge, really, but rather just as a 'symbolic ritual' that he's gone forever. If any of that stuff happened to be his favorite sweatshirt, then oops. I've been cheated on before, and it's not fun. I stopped talking to him, and like I said before, I lit the fireplace with some friends (which made the house completely stink). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cripplechild Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Easy to say it than having it done (use to say the same thing when I was 15, that it'll be over). Then by the time you're in love, you can't leave them and hope for the better. Some do change and do learn from it and well if the relation is worth saving it, then it's alright if you wanna work it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Easy to say it than having it done (use to say the same thing when I was 15, that it'll be over). Then by the time you're in love, you can't leave them and hope for the better. Some do change and do learn from it and well if the relation is worth saving it, then it's alright if you wanna work it out. Well, I've done it. No one said it was easy, but it is doable. And I sure didn't leave because I didn't love them...I left because when they cheated it showed they did not love me the way *I* want to be loved, and deserve to be loved. Some people choose to stay...their choice. I would make sure they are staying only because as a couple they have agreed to work through it together...and not because they are too scared to be alone, which is not a good reason to stay with someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cripplechild Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Yea it's your choice, that's true. I guess I must be too nice of a guy then, I couldn't leave her on the first, nor second, not third, which all happen little more than 3 years ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doyathink Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 i'll steal her rabbits and boil them in her pot so when she get home... mwhahahahahahaha! you forgot to add 'pour paint on their car' part! lol haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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