Yvette84 Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 NOTHING kills the mood faster than a guy with an extreamly hairy back...yuck!! I was making out with my last guy for the first time the other day and I put my hands up the back of his shirt...and AAHH!!!!!! it was like a bear....groooossss!! Note to guys: if you have a hairy back please do us all a favor and SHAVE IT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TiredMan Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 I agree about the hairy back. I'm happy I don't have that except for this one very small patch of about 2 or 3 total hairs but I shave that. I'm a big believer of no hair, whether it be back or pubes. I can only imagine what that is like to feel that from a woman's POV. But in comparison, if the underwear comes off and I see it down there too, I'm like ewwww as well (not loudly of course but just in my mind). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justpaisley Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 I hope he's more understanding of your physical flaws than you are of his. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyoshiro Ogari Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Thank goodness I am clean shaven back there. But I'll throw on a bearskin cape just to shock a girl for once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kellbell Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Ok...I can understand some things may not be as attractive to you than other things but we also need to be sensative to others and show a little more compassion. No one is perfect nor should they be. Just my two cents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BellaDonna Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 You guys/gals would have never survived in the age of Neanderthals: link removed lol Humans have still yet to evolve hairless. Hair vs. no hair is a preference. Everyone is entitled to a preference. Though if it's your BF/GF who you care about- you might not want to say "ew" or "gross" out loud and hurt their feelings, but rather communicate it in a more effective way like "I think a smoothe back is sexy", etc. Don't pressure him or make him feel bad about himself. BellaDonna Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goodfun88 Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Back hair isn't that bad. My bf has some and while he does usually keep it trimmed, I think its kinda cute, but that probably only cause I love him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Hmm, it shouldn't have been a big shock, you mean you didn't notice in general he was hairy everywhere else? My back is somewhat hairy (although quite fine) and I'm not about to shave it! I shave (or trim) other areas because I want to (facial, ears, nose, etc ....) but the back would be hugely tricky. Frankly, it does not seem to have been an issue at all for me. I suspect this isn't a stop sign for all women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 wow.... well I hope the guys here who happen to have hair on their backs know that this is only yvette's opinion, and the recommendation she made or favor she asked for on behalf of "us all" is from her alone. i don't happen to be share that opinion, at all.... love you hairy guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 If you guy shaved it, you would put your hand on his back and feel sharp stubble instead! While I don't go for the full-fur-coat thing that I know some men have, I would not say I get turned off by the normal amount of hair on a man! In fact, I think hair on a man is pretty darn sexy. My boyfriend does not have a hairy back (minus the few stragglers of course), but he does have hair on his chest/stomach etc which he sometimes shaves all off, but honestly I think he is hot either way! It's a preference, if you don't like it, don't be harsh about it or drag him to the waxing salon. Perhaps mention how you love a smooth back and see wehre it goes. But if he is a great guy, is a hairy back such a big deal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostInMyThoughts Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 To each his own. Shaving one's own back is difficult task. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 How on earth does a guy shave his back? Think about it. If I had a hairy back, I'd expect a woman to understand, not want me to change for her particular tastes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
novaseeker Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Well, you can go to a salon, presumably, but yes I was puzzled by the comment as well. As far as I know, a lot of women do not mind hairiness in men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 I mean, really. Look at the pic of little Dako. He's hairy, but ever so cute. Hairy ears, hairy face...and yep, hairy back for petting.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xprincessbugx Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 I agree that really hairy backs are unattractive. A few hairs or so are okay and not a big deal but really hairy backs are gross. I also understand that it'd be a little difficult to shave lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucia Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Jeez man are man, why are you so surprised that some of them have hairy backs?? My bf is hairy and I love it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucia Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Ps. if it was a girl with a hairy back that would be really gross lol but it's a guy so it's alright Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meow18 Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 I don't really understand how a guy can shave his back either? Yvette, are you still going to stay with this guy? I mean, it's one thing to not like it. But hair is the sort of thing you just can't control the growth of.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kellbell Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Even he does go to a salon to have it waxed off...my word...how painful!!! And I do not understand why someone would spend a lot of money and go through all that pain to please someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iceman26 Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 NOTHING kills the mood faster than a guy with an extreamly hairy back...yuck!! Note to guys: if you have a hairy back please do us all a favor and SHAVE IT! Well why not be nice and take him on a date to get waxed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 I have a hairy chest. My partner says that's her favourite place to snuggle up to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iceman26 Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 If you love someone, you love every part of them. Isn't that the way it's supposed to work? Normally, but Californian women are a different breed altogether. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 I just have a problem with the words eeeeewwww gross and yuck when talking about a person. I don't personally find hairy backs (with the exception of Dako's) attractive but I couldn't bring my self to say yuck. Really, for me, I wouldn't want the words YUCK, Ewwwww or Gross used in describing any part of my body. I'd be crushed. Even if someone was just talking about my toenails. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 Iceman26, what's wrong with California women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 For the record, my back is quite bare, but I feel compelled to gross you all out. In the 70s, many women stopped shaving, and I thought it was just fine. Hairy legs sure beat stubbly legs. Women are very pretty in their natural state. In fact a mustache or sideburns can be very seductive on some ladies. There. I finally said it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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