aggierocker Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 A guy asks you out, but you don't want to waste your precious time with him. So you go and make up an excuse because you don't have the confidence to say no. What's yours? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prenkle Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I'm seeing someone else already. Works every time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Like Prenkle, I would say that I was seeing someone else or that I had a bf already. But then guys usually dont ask me out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the yang to the worlds yin Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Well I was all set and ready to answer this, but aside from my ex I've only been asked out on a date once and I agreed. However, what ever happened to just telling them you don't think of them that way? People see through excuses, might as well be honest with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the yang to the worlds yin Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 But then guys usually dont ask me out Don't worry renaissancewoman, Same here =P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tesseract_Witch Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 So you go and make up an excuse because you don't have the confidence to say no. Don't have the confidence? Warum? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I would say no, I don't make excuses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucia Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I would say I'm lesbian, even though I'm not. I guess that should work Or maybe I would say I'm busy or have a bf. Usually I just say I'm not interasted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyfish Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Sorry, but i would just have to say (if i'm not single) that I was just busy and uninterested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xprincessbugx Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 sorry I'm engaged, I've actually used that at the mall a few times lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jabele Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 "I'm sorry, I just got out of a really intense relationship and I'm just not ready right now." ~My roommate taught me that one;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BillyJean714 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I'd say: "Sorry, I've been really busy, too bogged down with work. Thanks for asking.." -OR- "I have a bf." In some cases, when I do have one, and I say I do, I'll get this look of disappointment in the guy's face like he's thinking I'm using it as an excuse, but I'm not. Then he shrugs it off and plays it cool, which is fine, but I don't like feelin as if I'm a liar when I'm not. ..It's ALL situational. The busy excuse, however, is often a huge indicator. If someone likes you, they always somehow at least make time for something small like coffee or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 if i'm out at a club, and it's a guy i'll never see again, i would probably lie like say i have a bf, or i am married. if it's someone who i have to deal with in my day to day life and who knows other people i know, then that lie won't work. so i would just say, something like sorry but you're not my type, or something like that. i wouldn't want to tell that guy i'm not currently on the market, because then he will tell everyone else that, and well that wouldn't help me because i in fact am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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