sara_0562 Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 When my bf goes down on me and after I cum I cant stand him to continue touching, licking or doing anything down there, its just to sensative. Is this normal? Like I was under the impressiong that women are capable of multiple orgasms, one after the other without a time to recuperate. I cant handle more then one, its just to sensative!!! Is there anything to make it not so sensative after the first orgasm? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melrich Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 My partner is exactly the same so there are at least 2 of you that are like this. Can't tell you how "normal" it is but I suspect that lot's of women have the same sensitivity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Coach Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Make it 3 women! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sara_0562 Posted April 18, 2006 Author Share Posted April 18, 2006 ok good to hear i thought i was weird or something! It really sucks tho cause i dont want him to stop but its soooooo sensative! any ways to help this?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orgasmictofu Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 4 women. I'm the same way. My boyfriend will sometimes "torture" me and keep going. I use torture loosely, I freaking love it, and will squirm to get away but he's got his hold and loves to see me move around. (ETA: TMI? To have another orgasm right away, try indirect stimulation. Your body is still on a high after the initial orgasm, try playing around the clit, nipples, kissing, whatever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotcha Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I'm the same way too. For me another one really would be torture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coollady1957 Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I guess its probably different for each person. For some it could be too sensitive and for others not. Fortunately I never had that problem. I will stop there as to not give TMI. Only I will say that multiorgasmic is a blessing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tylercdurden2004 Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 My ex was like this! And I used to toture her to! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandomAdvisor Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 You can add my GF to the list as #7 then, but who's keeping count? I usually get her off with my hand before we actually start having sex, and once she orgasms she doesn't want me to touch it anymore. That doesn't interfere with us having sex though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I guess I'm the switch hitter to break up the line up: I can have multiple, but generally they're "shallower" then the really really good ones. The big clawing the sheets ones can leave me very sensitive and sleepy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Sounds like its MORE normal than you thought. I think you actually may be experiencing multiple ones but may not be aware. As CarnelianButterfly said happens to her, a lot of women have the more shallow ones and then a bigger, final one that leaves them sensitive and... well, done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Bear Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 i thought ALL women were that way. my s/o clamps her legs together (as if the auditory signals weren't enough of a clue that she's done) and if i don't react fast enough, my head gets momentarily caught in the vise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I thought it went along with death and taxes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsallgrand Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 That sucks. I don't have that problem. Maybe he's not very good at getting you off? pretty much kidding... I guess you can always keep playing (not that area: way to aggrevate it and ensure less orgasms) until you've recovered? Maybe I'm hearing you correctly. You can only orgasm once a night - no matter the approach? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orgasmictofu Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Maybe I'm hearing you correctly. You can only orgasm once a night - no matter the approach? You did misunderstand. We're talking about the hyper-sensitivity of the clitoris after orgasm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsallgrand Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Oh ok. I re-read the original post. I guess I kinda assumed she already knew her own body and how it works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Bear Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I guess I kinda assumed she already knew her own body and how it works. that wasn't very nice but lmao anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazedandconfusedbydestiny Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 make it 4 women Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Bear Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 make it 4 womeni've tried, but i could never get them all together at once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazedandconfusedbydestiny Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 lmao thanks needed that laugh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tjane Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 Have him try it like super sensitive and soft, like barely touching you, i used to be like that and then realized the next touch has to be delicate and it would happen again, and like i said like hes barely doing anything at all to you, it works for me, maybe for you??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jman311 Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 Uhhh ... just to chime in here ... doesn't this happen to guys too? Usually (though not necessarily always) I can't stand any stimulation right afterwards, at least for a short while (say a few minutes). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venturer Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 Uhhh ... just to chime in here ... doesn't this happen to guys too? Usually (though not necessarily always) I can't stand any stimulation right afterwards, at least for a short while (say a few minutes). Oh yeah, after I come... it gets really sensitive to the touch. So if she continues with the BJ or keeps riding me, I'd think that I'd have a heart attack soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAMRA2 Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 guys its totally normal for women to be like that after an orgasm.. yas u can have multiple but only after the first few seconds after the 1st orgasm..not 15 min like guys. giv it a shot./. and its perfectly normal gals! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Bear Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 Uhhh ... just to chime in here ... doesn't this happen to guys too? Usually (though not necessarily always) I can't stand any stimulation right afterwards, at least for a short while (say a few minutes).absolutely. ouch! and they wonder why we roll over afterwards and go to sleep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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