Kitz Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 I've been with three guys in my life. Seeing as I lost my virginity in a one night stand and can't really remember the other two times i got with him, thats out of the question, but I think he was average. Anyway, my current bf, i'd say hes a bit smaller than average. My ex was porn star size. 8 and a half inches or something. I'm telling you now -- its DEFINATLEY the motion of the ocean, not the size of the boat I'd rather a smaller than average guy who knows what hes doing rather than a large guy who just thrusts away and hurts you in the process. The question is... Are you happy? Do you feel fufilled? If you enjoy having sex and dont look at it as a "chore", if he makes you feel loved and whole and happy while you're with him.. its good sex. Size, seriously, is NOTHING compared to technique. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
7CardStud Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 the thing is im not sure how good it really is............i havent had anything to compare it to. It just seems good. But thats because i havent had a man who is 'normal' or large size. You cant deny that 4 inches is a little bit on the small side and it makes me wonder if he can ever give me what a bigger man can.at least in pure sexual satisfaction. Is it possible for a man his siz e to please a woman in the way that a bigger man can? (penetration - wise i mean). Also i wouldnt leave him because of it..........im just curious. Thats all. K, i'm not gonna lie... I'm a bit frustrated reading some of the posts here but anyways... Why are you even thinking about this? Would it matter if someone who was bigger could please you more? Because this kind of talk is pretty much why guys have insecurities about their size... IMO... Size doesn't matter, its what the partner thinks of the size... If the partner thinks the size is great then the sex will prolly be great... If the partner thinks that he is too small to please her or doubts him... Then you will in your mind prolly lose some feeling and it wont feel that great... I strongly believe in the mind being one of the biggest parts of sex, so if there is a wall built up to keep you from having pleasure, then u wont. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Ya know - Dako may be trying to be funny - or maybe he wasn't, but he IS right. There are obviously, different sized vaginas too. What I wanna know is.... well, my girlfriends and I really have sat around and talked about the size of our partners. And my husband has told me that girls are more verbal and talk about that stuff a lot more graphically than guys ever do even though men are given the "pig" rap... Do guys sit around and talk about how small or big their woman's who-who is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
7CardStud Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Do guys sit around and talk about how small or big their woman's who-who is? Not that I know haha, then again I here a lot of stuff more about "yeah i'm going to do this and that then leave her" So it's worse than discussing bodily parts imho The majority of Men are pigs though..... I'm not gonna deny that. But women can be just as nasty behind your back as well so meh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Vaginas do vary a bit, but I've heard little complaint. We men are very understanding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 so.......you're saying women are bigger complainers? Or men are just less picky? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SxcLady Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 ok i have no partner at the moment, but one of my ex's were absolutely huge. Well I thought they are. And my other ex ... was smaller by quite a bit ... anyway, the guy with the smaller one actually felt heaps better than the other two. Also the guy im sort of with now is smaller than the 2, and although we have not yet had intercourse everything else is so much more fun. Guys that are bigger are those guys that take hours and hours to cum. Id prefer a guy who can last max up to 3 hours. Otherwise im dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunabelle Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 Guys that are bigger are those guys that take hours and hours to cum. he he he.....ok LOL Why in the world would this be the case? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 hm - yeah, I don't think that there is a relationship between size and time to orgasm. it varies from man to man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cadence308 Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 Personally, I don't swing that way, so I don't think I would stay in the relationship! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SxcLady Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 Oh i dont know how it works but as far as i know ... (with the guys ive been with) the bigger they are the longer they take to orgasm! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
7CardStud Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 Oh i dont know how it works but as far as i know ... (with the guys ive been with) the bigger they are the longer they take to orgasm! naw, that's not the case i'm above avg n it varies from 5 minutes to a few hours haha... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SxcLady Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 well im just stating my views. ive never actually asked the guys but im just stating that from my experience with guys thats what it seemed like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWriter1 Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 im about 8 inches long and 5 3/4-6 around... some girls like it a bit bigger, others...well, they act like they like it big and then they wince when it actually gets in a little bit... would you rather be comfortable? Or have your cervix being punched over and over again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Bear Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 my attitude about breasts is as long as there are two of them, it's all gravy! some women probably feel the same about men. wait, that didn't come out right! what i meant was as long as everything works like it should... i'm around average-sized but i don't recall any complaints from women about getting the job done right, and far more often than not they have come back for more, which matters more than what i think about it myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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