ShaKe__ Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I wa curious,would you date a guy shorter than you? There is this guy from my school,he's got a great personality,is good-looking and we share the same interests.He fits my list for "the perfect guy" except that I'm taller than him.Not much though,but I know that if we start dating it would seem weird to everyone and I'll feel insecure because of it too.I know this shouldn't matter much,but I can't help it.I just care about stuff like that.But he's still 16 so he'll probably grow in height soon? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 ShaKe, I wish I could have that problem. Since I am only 4'5" tall, ALL guys are taller than me. Other than that, if I met someone shorter than me, and I was really into him, the height would not matter. I care more about what makes up the guy, like if he is compatible with me, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverCloud Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I agree with renaissancewoman101 100% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparky21 Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 My bf is shorter than me, not by much but people sometimes comment i dont have any issues with it coz i love him and i feel like he is perfect from me. there r some downsides though, i cant wear heels when i wit him or it makes us both uncomfortable. but other than that its all good! if u like this guy i'd say go for it, you wont notice the height thing after awhile hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Height is such a small issue in the grand scheme of things. If you genuinely like him, his height is going to have no bearing on how well you interact as a couple. Don't worry about it, enjoy him for who he is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thyroxine Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Height for me is a big deal. If it's only a little off, it doesn't bother me as much, but it's when I'm 3 or more inches taller...and I'm a tall girl. I know it's silly, but no matter how perfect the guy is for me, I cannot date him if he's shorter. It's a personal issue I suppose. If he's 16, there's still the possibility he'll grow taller. My younger brother was 5'5" until he turned 18...then he just became 6'1" practically overnight! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 It really doesnt matter sugar..go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyanne Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 personally i wouldn't date someone shorter. i like tall guys or at least a few inches taller.. i think if you really like someone and get along it shouldn't matter. he may get taller or he may not. my sister married someone just a bit shorter and they're very happy... around 16 years together or so. she doesn't care and will still wear heels cause it's true love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jabele Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Well, I wouldn't- but that's because I'm only 4'11. To date a shorter guy would be pretty damn short! ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BellaDonna Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I would date a shorter guy, no problem. BellaDonna Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bethany Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I'm 5ft 1 and not sure if I could. But my brother who is 5ft 7 is dating a 6 foot, attractive, slim gorgeous blonde. I've never seen a couple so much in love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeawutever Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Yes, if he's good looking and good personality, anytime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Most of my crushes were few inches shorter than me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Yup, and I have in the past! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SparklingBlueIs Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I'm going through a similar situation, I'm dating a guy that is 5'5" and I'm 5'6"1/2. He's a real sweet guy, he leaves me roses everywhere, on my car, at my front door. At first his height affected me but now I really don't think it's his height that's turning me off, it's just things he says. I'm leaving my options open, I'm playing the field right now because I am only 17, don't really want anything too serious and I think this guy does. He has his whole life set up already, he's 21, going to college, he has already made junior accountant in a homeland security company. He wants to buy a house next year...I'm not even sure whats going to happen in the next year, but ohwell... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heythere1234 Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I'm not quite 5'2", so probably not. I tend to prefer them taller, but not too tall. However, I've seen and known some shorter guys that were pretty good looking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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