What do you find attractive about the opposite sex/same sex?

[AzureSkyes69]

Okay no matter who you are and what your sexuality is you have definite likes and dislikes as far as looks,personality etc.I just want to know what is that you all like about a person.

I will go first.

 

intelligence

nice eyes

sense of humor

strength of character

open minded

good common sense

somewhat independent

charming and seductive

goals and direction in life

not too judgemental

takes care of themselves(does not need a surrogate mother)

good hygeine(def must)

kindenss & understanding

adventurous

good listener

likes to try new things

has some interests in common with me

articulate

affectionate

caring

good kisser

etc...

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dark hair & green/brown or hazel eyes(usually but there are exceptions)

thin or average build(usually but there are exceptions)

nice smile

med-longish hair(I like hair I can run my fingers through)

 

oh! and I usullly like somone with sort of a rebelious streak..a little bad boy/bad girl..

[Alabama]

I find someone attractive if they have intelligence, beauty is one, but I get over infatuation eventually, and the only attractive quality remains is someone who has 3-Dimensional qualities about themselves. As long as the person is unique and confident about who they are, then I will definitely be intrigued by them.

[DN]

More than anything else - kindness. The greatest human quality for it guarantees all the others.

 

My wife is very kind.

[truthbetold]

Some one w/their own personality,

intelligence,

common sense and decency,

nice eyes,

sense of humor,

ability to make me laugh or smile even on my worst days,

and I have to say it because it's pretty true...good facial features (but then again atleast half of my friend don't find my b/f attractive, but I think he's hot looking...)

[xblondyx]

Oohhh Ummmm....

Nice Eyes (the window to your soul lol)

Sexy strong arms (to hold me tight - lol)

Good listener

Got to make me laugh

Kindness

Got to have something in common with me

Good style - don't want no tramp

Good hygiene!

Someone who has time for me, but also has time for their friends and family (don't want them to give up their life for me)

Someone who understands when i need space and just can't be bothered.

 

Just the perfect man really! But there's no such thing!

[AwdreeHpburn]

sense of humor is top on my list! I love a person who can make me laugh. I'm not a super emotional person so the physical things mean a lot to me...

 

...good in the dark

 

But, I am a sucker for someone who believes in me

[Kevin T]

What do I find attractive in the opposite sex...? I'll just copy & paste my response from the other thread like this one:

 

Kind-hearted

ROMANTIC (Cannot stress this enough!!)

Affectionate

Sweet

Polite (Another biggie for me... is it so hard to say thank you when a guy holds a door open for you??)

Has faith in God (Obviously important for me)

Sensitive

Has a sense of humour (So important, IMO)

Honest (Holy crap, no liars please!)

Values commitment and integrity

Genuinely cares for other people and wants to do something worthwhile in this world (So I guess selfless)

Relatively feminine (I'm not really into tomboys per se)

Dresses well and takes care of herself (If she doesn't care what she looks like, why should I - or anyone else?)

Compassionate

Easy to get along with

Energetic (Boring = bad)

Values the people in her life

Curvaeous hourglass figure (Not too thin or too heavy)

Long hair - I'm partial to blondes, but I like redheads too

Beautiful eyes and smile

Cute face

Most important, she likes and accepts me for me and wants to be with me