Deesa Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 YOu know the whole deal of First Base, Second Base etc. in a relationship. Is third base oral sex? And like. How do I "show" my girlfriend that I'm ready to move to the next level? I don't want to be disrespectful and push anything or anything like that. But you know what I mean right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrocza Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I actually never knew what the "bases" meant. I always joked around with friends... I thought first base would be kissing, second oral and third would be "all the way"...but then again, wouldn't "home" base be that? I don't know, lol. Have you talked with her? I wouldn't try to push it onto her until you know she's comfortable and ready. Why don't you ask her how she feels about it, has she even thought about having it done, etc. Or just read her body language...if you start kissing her, move to her neck, while rubbing her back, then kiss her stomache...if she stops you then, you'll know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonelyinasmalltown Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I always assumed 1st base - kissing 2nd base - touching 3rd base - "other stuff" oral included Home - sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MewSkitty Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 I will never understand that bases stuff people talk about. Besides, in my opinion you should wait until you're married to have sex. There's other ways to show your love to people. Just treat them kindly and you'll be treated likewise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GNR4ever Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 here its: first base - kissing second base - touching, a lot of other stuff third base - oral, everything else but actual sex home - sex theres about a million versions of it though, its confusing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xprincessbugx Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 I wanna know who thought of the bases theory in the first place lol b.c. it sure is used a lot! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keenan Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 Funny, this came up a month or so ago. Back in my day (LOL), the bases were more modest: 1st = kissing, 2nd = up the shirt, 3rd = (feeling) down the pants, home = sex...any kind. I don't know when oral sex got a demotion from "home" to just 3rd base... It's not intercourse, but it's sex! Not that anybody ever paid much attention to baseball, anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paralleltraverse Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 lol i thought it was......... 1st base: kissing 2nd base: groping breasts 3rd: touching the genitals home: sex IMO, i think of oral sex ASsex. so that would fit into the space between 3rd and home lol.you really should talk to her and see if she wants to "go further". and dont forget to have protected sex! have fun lil slugger! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumkin_fairy Posted April 15, 2006 Share Posted April 15, 2006 lol i thought it was......... 1st base: kissing 2nd base: groping breasts 3rd: touching the genitals home: sex IMO, i think of oral sex ASsex. so that would fit into the space between 3rd and home lol.you really should talk to her and see if she wants to "go further". and dont forget to have protected sex! have fun lil slugger! aahhhh i've allways wondered that!!! thank you!! jen xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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