yumblefish Posted March 27, 2006 Share Posted March 27, 2006 How often do you kiss your SO? I'm not talking a peck on the lips here - I mean a passionate full blown kiss I'm almost always in the mood to kiss my gf but over the last few months it's petered out quite significantly and I'm not sure why. This is my first serious relationship (not hers) so I'm all up for kissing and having kissing 'sessions', but it very rarely happens and even when it does, it's me that initiates it. Is she just not really that into me? To be honest, my feelings for her are fading dramatically due to this lack of intimacy, which I view as a significant part of a romantic relationship... Do some people just not need or enjoy physical intimacy? Thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlilvampxx Posted March 27, 2006 Share Posted March 27, 2006 Well... Personally... Me and My BF French kiss alot, but not at school, someone is always watching, and i dont like that... I would say about 10 times on a weekend and once or twice on a weekday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
serve_the_people Posted March 27, 2006 Share Posted March 27, 2006 I think the problem is that she has way more experience that you, and thus she finds kissing less interesting that it first was. If she really doesn't care about you, dump her, and find a girl who has never had a boyfriend, and who would be more appreciative of kissing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flutegirl23 Posted March 27, 2006 Share Posted March 27, 2006 i don't think that you should dump her. i mean, if that is the only reason then it is a little shallow. of course things slow down after a while. i've been with my SO for 3 years and i completely am at that point. it's different for us because we are apart at college so when we see eachother it's different. how long have you been dating? how old is she? all those factors are involved too. i love to kiss my boyfriend, but there are also times when i just want to be together and not have to make out. talk with her about it. as cliche as it sounds, communication is key and how else will you know. we're not her. hope that helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PRSOV Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Hmm... I disagree because I once went out with a girl who was well well experienced and her biggest "turn-on" was kissing, she would always love kissing and she usually always initiated our kissing sessions and we both always varied it here and there just to keep it interesting and so that it never became so boring that we didn't want to kiss... It made her soooo wet too... I guess what I am really saying that it isn't the amount of experience you have that deteriorates the enjoyment, but what it is that actually pushes your buttons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BurningInside Posted March 31, 2006 Share Posted March 31, 2006 In the space of 45 mins, about 8 times, when there are people around. When its just me and her It'll be one kiss that lasts an hour. We kiss, a lot. We really seem to have a connection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keenan Posted March 31, 2006 Share Posted March 31, 2006 It's a full-time hobby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xprincessbugx Posted March 31, 2006 Share Posted March 31, 2006 I don't actually count, but I think it's quit a bit actually. It's just one of those natural things that when you feel it you go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazyinotown Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Is she just not really that into me? To be honest, my feelings for her are fading dramatically due to this lack of intimacy, which I view as a significant part of a romantic relationship... Do some people just not need or enjoy physical intimacy? Thoughts? When you find the answer out to that one, PM me, 'cause I know exactly where you're coming from! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 A lot. We always seem to be in physical contact actually, handholding/cuddling when we arnt actually in bed or whatever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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