BONO Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 Ladies and Gentlemen of the " Getting Back Together Forum" (Plus Majord23 ) My ex has just phoned after texting twice to say she "misses me , loves me and wants to get back together" She was not drunk and had been thinking about things over the last 3 months or so ( since the perfect plan) My response : Think about it, and lets talk later or so to speak after a 30 min conversation. Scruff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markm Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Nice! That is so great to hear! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 That's good news. At least, I take it you will say yes? Make sure she is certain and that she can assure you that the reasons she broke up with you in the first place no longer apply. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kerure Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 To all those whose hearts are bleeding like mine at the moment and would want nothing more than getting back with their partners, I hope and pray we get as lucky as this and post a message like this soon.... but only if getting back together is God's plan for us all. I'm well glad for you buddy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majord23 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 scruff, you know my thoughts mate. Stay in touch ya big lug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solo34 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Congratulations, Scruff. That's some great news 4 U. I hope that it all works out and that U 2 stay 2gether this time. We all learn from our mistakes, and I'm sure the 2 of U are no different. Good luck, man. -Solo34 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONO Posted March 23, 2006 Author Share Posted March 23, 2006 Guys/Girls + Majord23 , Im not going anywhere. But these are critcal times .So as much as I will plough my thoughts and experinces in getting to this point, back into enotalone - Getting Back Together. There is a long way to go. Why ??? Because Actions Always Speak Louder Than Words. Scruff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Does she still live 500k away? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freelove Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Congratulations man!!! So good to hear that there can be success out there. I truly hope it works out for you! All the best!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majord23 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Guys/Girls + Majord23 You're making sound like an asexual creature mate...mind you, at the moment I may as well be Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Jim Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Haha asexual haha good job, all the best, take it slow though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONO Posted March 23, 2006 Author Share Posted March 23, 2006 Yes. But Its 2 hours away. However, I will have to qualify her intentions in the medium term. Sure, she is doing right in terms of her career right now by getting qualified. She misses me, and all her friends here. I work Mon to Fri and when we went out we would only see each other at weekends because she worked the same daft hours as well. I have asked the question is it me OR the lifestyle/friends she misses. She said me, and judging by her behviour over the past 3 months she has confirmed that. Wise DN , I am not taking this at face value at all. There are alot of things we need to discuss. Im just saying that the theories and strategies on this forum to get the girl who dumped you to a point of her wanting you back as her boyfriend have worked so far. This is what "Getting back together - enotalone" is perhaps for. The rest is unsure right now. Scruff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torchbearer Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Sweet. You probably don't want to share your story again but could you provide a link to it. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONO Posted March 23, 2006 Author Share Posted March 23, 2006 Keep posting guys, but I need to logg off now and get some shut eye and get my emotions in check for tomorrow All the best Scruff xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enolaton Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Duuuuuuude! Keep those emotions in check... that's what I'm talking about! Take it slow, keep us posted. Good luck scruff! We got your back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 COOOOLLLL!!!!! Very happy for you! I hope it all works out well!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 How long were you two together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OCD Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Congrats Scruff....good job. I really hope things work out for you. It's great to see a succes story Keep things cool and I hope to see more good things come from this. Take care. OCD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pikey1972 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 That's excellent news Scruff, I hope it works out for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coldheart Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Awesome Scruff, really motivating stuff. Good luck with your outcome! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely days Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Congratulations, I hope you get everything you want! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Royltnxile Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Great news Scruff! I like the way you are thinking about the whole "actions speak louder than words" issue. You had a great phone conversation and she seemed to say everything you have been wanting to hear. Now make her work for you and say the same things to you in person, to your face, looking into your eyes when she says them. You will be able to judge her sincerity and intent much better in person. Then you will know exactly where she's at emotionally. Just be cautious and take it as it comes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vesper Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Im happy that you got what you wanted more than anything in the world ... your ex back in your life ( and together with you ) ... good work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONO Posted March 24, 2006 Author Share Posted March 24, 2006 Guys A big thank you to all of you. I have followed the advice here and have got to the point where she wants to get back together. The next few weeks we will see if we get back together. To be continued .......... Scruff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Jim Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Quick questions for you scruffism. 1 What was her reason for ending it? ive read your posts just forget 2 does it still bother you that right after you guys broke up she was with that other guy, how long were they together? did she date anyone else during this time? 3 From your posts its hard to get an idea of time, i know you broke up early fall, but what was teh longest streak of absolute NC? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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