lacrazyone Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 So i have this friend. And we hang out as friends, and go on friend dates. He says he likes me..and i have clearly told him multiple times i like him. ive pretty much held a neon sign over my head saying ASK ME OUT!! i even told him in a text i was getting frustared cus i wanted to be with him and so far nothing was happening between us and i was about to give up(i said this because i was gonna go hangout with a guy from school..he didnt care for that too much) so i explained "i wanna be with u, but i know nothing is gunna happen so i give up" he never tells me how he feels! he just asks dumb questions like "and why do u think that" or.. "u dfidnt make it obvious" or "i am glad u feel that way" like, cant he say "HEY I WANNA BE WITH U TOO??"" i mean the guy likes me....and hangs out with me! and WANTS to go out with me, and SAYS the feeling is mutual when it comes 2 wanting to be together.....so whats taking him so long? or stopping him? like * * * is the guy that dumb or what...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Why can't you just ask him out. If the neon sign isn't working be blunt as a hammer and say "Would you like to go on a real date with me?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lacrazyone Posted March 17, 2006 Author Share Posted March 17, 2006 i feel the guy should do the asking out...cus if he wants to go out with me, he should ask me. i dont wanna ask him and him feel trapped into saying yes. idk though. im just not into doing the asking. i guess im old fashioned. who knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Don't think the guy should do this or girls should do this. Personally it shouldn't matter if you cared or loved someone very much. Go ask him out... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krissbrown Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Do you think hes shy? How old is he? Maybe he is very afraid of rejection. Its possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Women can do whatever they want. They can vote, run for office, fly airliners and ask men out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Ask him out. Why should you leave everything up to the guy, that's just lazy. Take charge of your life, make the first move. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coollady1957 Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 I am with everyone else here, I vote for you asking him out !! Take charge yourself and try to get the ball rolling since he isn't yet doing so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimmerBR Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Ask him out! You´ve already shown your feelings. Let´s see you enforce them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GottaLetItBurn Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 I think you should just ask him. He is just a guy, he can't get mad at you for liking him and you wanting to be with him. Just ask him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Yep - have to agree with the others. No reason you can't ask him out - like Dako says, women get to vote and everything now. You can take responsibility for this sort of stuff as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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