Dregnought Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 First of all, a great deal of members proberly know of Moon Goddess's and my relationship. We love each other to bits, etc etc. Well I got a problem. Im 15, my sex drive and hormones are running wild. Too wild. Because of them, i'm kinda willing to have sex with anyone, any form of sex, even gay sex, but because of my lover, I won't. Oversually stuff like this is going to kill our relationship, so i'm asking, pleading, can anyone help me parhaps lower my drive before I do something stupid and jeprodise my relaionship with my lover? Or any advice? I just don't know what to do anymore, and I don't know if I will be able to keep it under control. It is so powerful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the yang to the worlds yin Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 i've found that if you try and find a hobby to shift your minds focus, that usually helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 mastrubate, watch porn, have phone sex with your girl. no point in doing something stupid that you will regret. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dregnought Posted March 4, 2006 Author Share Posted March 4, 2006 I do mastrubate. Watching porn? Wish I could, but if I ever did get busted... well pratically my entire life goes out the window. Phone sex? No can do. Half the problem is that in essense all we are having is cybersex maybe once every few days? We only get a bit more then an hour a day on average. Thats where my problem is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the yang to the worlds yin Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 well whatever you do, don't sink to the level of infedility or incest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 Try cold showers - an old remedy/cliché but it may work for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 If you find a cure, please post it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dregnought Posted March 4, 2006 Author Share Posted March 4, 2006 Not the only one hey? It sucks. Cold showers, unless your talking freezing, I usually have cool showers with little effect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpkinjam Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 i think it's normal for lads your age to be like that but if you love your girl that much then you must stop yourself. whenever you have a "bad thought" think "how would my girl feel about that?" and finding something to take your mind off it is also a good suggestion. i wouldn't recommend porn or phonesex or anything like that cos that could make it worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 Not the only one hey? It sucks. Cold showers, unless your talking freezing, I usually have cool showers with little effect. Cold enough so that you think you have a little blue acorn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dregnought Posted March 4, 2006 Author Share Posted March 4, 2006 i think it's normal for lads your age to be like that but if you love your girl that much then you must stop yourselfI have been, but its getting harder and harder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
italianstalian Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 did u say ANAL with your brother............... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dregnought Posted March 4, 2006 Author Share Posted March 4, 2006 Any form of sex. Edit: 3rd person to ask me about that, edited main post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eljose Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 Actually, whatever you do, do not go the cold shower route. Repeated exposure to very cold water, wether bathing or swimming will raise your testosterone levels, and it does not sound like you need that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblue Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 No limit to masturbation. Knock yourself out.. DN - Too much information - LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyoshiro Ogari Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I have been, but its getting harder and harder. I think you mean that in both senses, don't you? I would chill out on the phone sex. Basically you are window shopping with no cash, but you know you have to have what's in that department window. Can you converse without the phone sex, would the conversations seem empty without it? As for masturbating, I would do it, then do it again, then do it again. After the fourth rub down, you'll be so tired you won't be able to do it. One day there was this girl who I really liked, and she did something to me that drove me wild. Tease! Anyway, I had no other option but to masturbate it off. I did it until I was too tired to care. Keep at it if those sex drives get too much for you. If you feed your sex drive in a healthy way, maybe you won't have urges to do anything that you'll regret later on. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dregnought Posted March 5, 2006 Author Share Posted March 5, 2006 Hmm... Defently interesting. Thanks everyone! Out of intrest, anyone got anything besides masterbating? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 My method: Find a cold, windy spot. Sit there without a jacket until you shiver and go numb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblue Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 My method: Find a cold, windy spot. Sit there without a jacket until you shiver and go numb. I just leave the window open. But then again, it is Scotland... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I'm at an outdoor cafe in So Cal, so I forgot you ice people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblue Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 At your age, they let you use a café? Aren't fossils strictly for museums? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keenan Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 My method: Find a cold, windy spot. Sit there without a jacket until you shiver and go numb. While masturbating? Or instead of? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dregnought Posted March 5, 2006 Author Share Posted March 5, 2006 Well i'm in the tropical North Queensland in Australia. Not so cold here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 Dreg, after consulation, I've decided that the best way to go is to not masterbate. If you do it will constantly be in your head and you know you can just do that whenever the mood arises it. May make it worse. So do whatever it takes to take your mind off of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 At your age, they let you use a café? Aren't fossils strictly for museums? We fossils are slow, but we eventually notice things. I was just distracted by a cute trilobyte... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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