koolaidnovel Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 So this guy has asked me on several dates, and seems to really like me, according to his friends who have said he talks about me, etc. Most recently, he brought me back to his apartment and we watched a few movies. He's touched me playfully (like pushing and stuff) ...but the whole time I was there, he didn't make any move on me, like even a kiss or anything. Is there any valid reason that a guy would hold out that long to make a move, if he likes a girl? Maybe he doesn't "like" me like that? I mean, it seems like a stupid question because if he's asked me on several dates, doesn't that automatically mean that he likes me? Any opinions are welcome, thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darketernal Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 You have to 'confirm' and motivate him that he is allowed to do 'more'. He seems like a decent guy who wouldn't dare to 'violate' a woman, that's plausible because a guy suffers the possibility that a woman will scream 'rapist, and murderer' all over if he touches her in a place where she didn't want to be touched. Telling him that he is allowed to kiss you is important 4 you 2. That way you can encourage him to bring the relationship to a further level. He likes you for sure, otherwhise he wouldn't have showed interest in the first instance to begin with, thereforeeee just motivate him more. Keyword = motivational communication. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicguy Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 maybe he's not ready to make a move yet. Give him some time, when it happens it will happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 He obviously likes you enough to bring you home, so he's happy to be with you. He may be trying to show respect while not wanting to risk offense or rejection. Are you assuming it's up to him to come on to you? The ball's in your court. Take a swing at it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PocoDiablo Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 He lacks confidence. Send him our way.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolaidnovel Posted February 28, 2006 Author Share Posted February 28, 2006 Thanks, everyone. I'd rather he make the first move instead of me, because ...for some reason I want more validation that he likes me. By the way, he's 23 and I'm 18. Does that have to do with anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Thanks, everyone. I'd rather he make the first move instead of me, because ...for some reason I want more validation that he likes me. Well put, and a good way to look at it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lansing Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 He is probably "shy" and doesn't want to offend you. Be more flirty with him. I.e. look into his eyes or whatever.... based on what you said, that sounds like me when I was younger... (And still me ... sometimes) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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