burton_xtr_rider Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 pretty simple my girlfriend said that shes not ready for sex in some quiz thing she did when she was board but how do i tell her i am and that i think we should? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friscodj Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 Welcome to ENA! Just talk about it with her. Tell her how you fell, try to figure out what's going on with her, if she is afraid, not in love with you, not sure of herself and how she'll do, poor self-image, doesn't like her body, etc. Get to the bottom of it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 You maybe ready, but she really could not be. Don't push her! Let her choose if its right for her. The quiz may seem like crap to you, but it could have got her thinking about serious issues and concerns that having sex will cause. Talk to her, but it is her choice and her choice alone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puccie08 Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 well for a girl its a really big deal so my advice is to wait its not all that bad if youre really into her this is a good thing beacuse waiting showes her that thats not all that u want and its never good to have a relationship based on sex because they never last you could talk to her about it but if shes not ready dont pressure her b/c you dont want her to feel regret trust me it will be so much better when she wants it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin T Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 I strongly think you should not push her. If she doesn't want to, accept it. The worst - and most selfish - thing you could possibly do would be to try and force her into doing something she is not prepared for. If/when she is ready, that will be the right time. Not one moment sooner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
burton_xtr_rider Posted February 26, 2006 Author Share Posted February 26, 2006 thanks and i wouldnt pressure her into doing anything anywaise Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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