okura2 Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 You have being offer a opptunity to become rich however you have to live far away and break up with your girlfriend. would you go? if so why or why not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 I am going to change this to boyfriend...but, I would say if I knew they were the person for me, no way. I would also discuss moving together, or just finding another position - money is not everything after all, I'd rather have a job I enjoyed and a relationship that was fulfilling and amazing - and I can find both without leaving my partner! The only reason I would was if the relationship was definitely "over" for either one or both of us even if not officially, or it was an unhealthy relationship and it was time to move on, or we were going on different paths and knew there was no future. There is no way I would break up with my current bf though for a job or anything like that, we are partners and make decisions that affect us together - that goes both ways. But that is also because we plan on being together the rest of our lives, and so make decisions with that in mind too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keenan Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 What are the rules? How much do you like her? Can you disguise her as a maid and sneak her on board the Queen Mary? Is this a "my boyfriend needs to go back to XX country and take over his parents' lucrative company, but to do so he must marry a woman of his culture and social class and never see me again" kind of question? Because I had a friend who did that. His girlfriend married a nicer guy the following year, and his parents company got taken over by a rebel government. For real. Sorry. I guess I'm not good at hypotheticals. I'll be safe and say no. But I don't have a girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NKP Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 i would listen to my heart. if you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her then stay coz money cant buy love. i let my love get away and now i do regret that and i always will, so dont do anything you will regret later on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brando Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 The way i see it, i would go for the money opportunity. A girl friend can be found again, their are lots and lots of women to be found. I don't believe in the one, so i guess that is why i would take the latter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NKP Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 so is that all you care about "money" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Süsser Tod Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 If you are going to become rich, that means you'll be making enough money. Doesn't that mean that she can move with you and you can help support her while she gets a job/place over there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brando Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 no, i think becoming rich may be a little more difficult than finding a new love, that is all. Life is all about choices, not regrets. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NKP Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 yer i know wot you mean but it realli depends on who this girl is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brando Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Ok Kita, i can see your point. But i think i would still choose the riches. brando Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dregnought Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 U assume to much Brando. Far too much. I know that i would give up everything just to be with MG, and she knows that to. One day ill marry her, shes the one. i know it, true love. Analise your current situation, decide if u really need this money. If so, how much and how far are you two? is it magical, little/no effort, or is it a stain to say 'I love you'? if its magical, can u 2 go together? if its a stain get the $$$ I hope that helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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