Mandy22 Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Just curious, if you had to pick the qualities most attractive in a female what would they be and why. Also what would transform a girl from just gf material to potential wife material? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostInMyThoughts Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Most attractive for me, several things. Physical beauty. I think that's a no brainer. Willing to participate in activities I enjoy, at least to try them once. Just a common desire for all couples. Has to enjoy sex, wants to please me, wants me to please her. As for GF material to being married, I guess I just give it time, and see how I feel about someone, if I can see myself growing old with them, enjoying their company. Its just a feeling I get. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 Intelligence, wit, serenity, pretty hands and she has to smell good. Marriage? Been there, done that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tmp0620 Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 "if you had to pick the qualities most attractive in a female what would they be and why." The qualities I'm attracted to in women are indepence, intelligence, a good sense of humour, and ight heartedness. I'm into outgoing girls too, cause it's a good counter to my quietness. "Also what would transform a girl from just gf material to potential wife material?" All of the above plus time (time to get to know if we are compatible over the longterm). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 if you had to pick the qualities most attractive in a female what would they be and why Warmth, compassion, kindness, a good heart. I can't be with someone who would disrespect others. She needs to genuinely be a good person with a good heart who does her best to do the right thing and make the world a better place, even if its in some small way. Also what would transform a girl from just gf material to potential wife material The connection. It's in how we relate to one another and get along. Honestly, I don't differentiate. I'm not looking for just a girlfriend. If I'm going to take a chance with a girl, there is going to be a chance it leads to marriage in the long run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 If I'm going to take a chance with a girl, there is going to be a chance it leads to marriage in the long run. That's a tall order! I never met anyone and thought of marriage or tried to judge the possibility. It took me years to even consider getting hitched to my ex. I doubt I'll ever do that again. Right now I'd be happy with crumbs. If you have a system that works for you, that's great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PassionatePices Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 "Just curious, if you had to pick the qualities most attractive in a female what would they be and why. Also what would transform a girl from just gf material to potential wife material?" Independent,intelligent,emotionally secure,passionate about life, sense of humor,respects all walks of life,kind and a big loving heart.With that said marriage would be in the picture IF we are compatible over time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 That's a tall order! I never met anyone and thought of marriage or tried to judge the possibility Probably didn't state that in the best of ways. It's not as if I'm automatically judging every girl with the thought of marriage. Quite the opposite. I try to give pretty much no thought to relationships or marriage. That way when something inevitably comes along, it will be real enough to hopefully last to marriage and beyond. I don't really believe in dating or needing to have lots of relationships before I get married. I play my cards close to the vest, not taking a chance unless I'm sure. But when I'm in, I'm all in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 I don't really believe in dating or needing to have lots of relationships before I get married. . Sounds interesting. I would suggest another plan, but maybe you've got some secret for finding Ms. Goodbar. Marriage is something I don't feel eager to revisit, and can't imagine happening again. It just doesn't have that magical aura anymore. My goal is relationship avoidance, so what do I know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 I'm a romantic, dreamer and optimist. Don't think I could follow any other way. But I'll end up happy in the end, proving that I was on the right track all along. To each their own. Just got to have faith and believe. Dako, you've had it rough recently. You don't need a relationship right now. Something will come along when it is right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 I'm a romantic, dreamer and optimist. Don't think I could follow any other way. But I'll end up happy in the end, proving that I was on the right track all along. To each their own. Just got to have faith and believe. I used to feel like that, a wide eyed looking for love sick puppy. Now I'm bitter, cynical, and depressed alot. And to think we weren't even dating... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 I used to feel like that, a wide eyed looking for love sick puppy. Now I'm bitter, cynical, and depressed alot. And to think we weren't even dating... Not dating the one who broke your heart? Boy can I relate. Went through the depression, trying to be positive now. Try not to let the bad experience keep you down. Sorry if the thread has been hijacked. Please, resume the original intent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frajhav Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Must be Kind,Smart,Physical is ok not really necesary but not over or below weight.Good self steem,Loves me couse who i am,Have allways inmind i aint perfect and she issent ither we all make mistakes,Someone i can really trust,Independent,Direct..i dont whant her to hides things from me(feelings,hate,desire,love...ect)Beautifull personality and of corse have lots in common and have intresting conversations not same old ones gets buring by time.Thats about it for me o yea...and i found her i allways wanted my gf to have green eyes do,but hell..she has cute eyes!!and i love them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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