kickedin Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 accusing of things i didnt do......following her.....blah blah blah......it is untrue and i feel like if i dont respond i am guilty.........i had her blocked but then unblocked her like an idiot.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtina Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 oh thats nice of her.. sending narty emails, instead of saying that to your face. I think you should talk to her face to face and get things cleaned, or it will haunt you a lot. Don't respond back telling her nasty things back, because then you go under her level. Just talk to her. Nothing better than talking. Try Valentines day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1824blue Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 I either wouldn't respond, saying nothing says alot more then people think. Or email her back a short "not sure where all this is coming from, but I am not even going to humor any of it. Take care." She is hurting and wants you to hurt as well. Its called projection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElektraHere Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Kicked in -- So was this the kind of contact you thought would come back to you? I don't think so. I would just block her from your IM and let all of it go. What would you accomplish by explaining yourself to her? No need to meet with her face to face or email her back She is more than likely not going to believe you. So go on with your business and let this gal go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessLinzay Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 I know that under the circumstances, not responding is hard. However, that is exactly what I would recommend. You know that you didn't do those things, and you have no obligation to justify yourself to her. She sure does seem full of herself though to be making those type of accusations. I would put her back on block and continue to ignore her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keenan Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Or you could ignore it. Sounds like she's trying to get a rise out of you, either because she's lonely or angry. You know you're not guilty, and *so does she*. Not a good situation to walk into. I'm sorry to get off topic, but xtina, your avatar is so cute! I smile everytime I see it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtina Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Kicked in -- So was this the kind of contact you thought would come back to you? I don't think so. I would just block her from your IM and let all of it go. What would you accomplish by explaining yourself to her? No need to meet with her face to face or email her back She is more than likely not going to believe you. So go on with your business and let this gal go. Or just send a really narty email back if you want to be all meany on valentines day to make her feel bad. hah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtina Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 I'm sorry to get off topic, but xtina, your avatar is so cute! I smile everytime I see it. haha thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted February 13, 2006 Author Share Posted February 13, 2006 well i dont like being walked on and yes she does seem to be full of her self Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keefy1972 Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 "I didn't do any of that stuff. Frankly, I have too much going on in my life to have the time or energy to waste on such nonsense". Say that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElektraHere Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Sometimes less is more........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keefy1972 Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Elektra is exactly right...if you respond at all, say this... "Whatever...haha". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted February 13, 2006 Author Share Posted February 13, 2006 at this point i am running high on emotions!!!!! and i want to send it to put her in her place but maybe i shouldnt because it is a losing battle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElektraHere Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 What will it accomplish for you? That she is right and you are what she says you are? Nothing my friend NOTHING is what you should do. Go running or lift weights to get the frustration out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted February 13, 2006 Author Share Posted February 13, 2006 it wont accomplish anything...she is obviously done and i cant comprehend how it has gone this far...but it has and i dont think she really cares... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hockeyboy Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Or just send a really narty email back if you want to be all meany on valentines day to make her feel bad. hah i wouldnt do this, as this is prob exactly what she wants. she wants you to get nasty with her, then she will feel justified in how she is acting and treating you. instead just say something like "hey, i'm not sure where all of this is coming from, they must have been a huge misunderstanding somewhere. regardless, i hope you have a good valentines day. take care. bye." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keenan Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 Where's NJRon when we need him? He'd know how to convince you not to respond. Take a look at some of his old posts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtina Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 hockeyboy, I know I just pulled out the abd side of me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brando Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 If you don't respond she is stuck with what she said. Better to leave it ths way then to fight back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted February 13, 2006 Author Share Posted February 13, 2006 If you don't respond she is stuck with what she said. Better to leave it ths way then to fight back. i dont know why she would waste an hour typing me all this and someone told her to get a restraining order....i havent done * * * *....she got snagged by my friend at a bar with a guy and i think she feels had....because she painted a picture that it was too much for her to be in a relationship when in reality she wanted a greener pasture..... i just dont see any good in it....... "it's such a shame that it comes to this" what does that statement mean? shes allowing it in my book... * * *? man she has hurt me! i am in shock it got so bad so fast...if i could turn back time i would do it yesterday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted February 14, 2006 Author Share Posted February 14, 2006 this is the most bizarre relationship i have been in ever........i feel like a twin is terrorizing things behind my back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merickso Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 kickedin, did you end up responding? I hope you didnt, as I fully agree that leaving her with what she said is the way to go. I agree with your other post, what is the point? She is going to need to cool off anyway, and if she loves you, she'll contact you again to apologize. Else, you know where she stands. I exchanged some nasty words with my exex and I never felt good when the conversation was over, however, she would say very rude things to me and it felt good when I just wouldnt dignify her questions with answers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted February 14, 2006 Author Share Posted February 14, 2006 kickedin, did you end up responding? I hope you didnt, as I fully agree that leaving her with what she said is the way to go. I agree with your other post, what is the point? She is going to need to cool off anyway, and if she loves you, she'll contact you again to apologize. Else, you know where she stands. I exchanged some nasty words with my exex and I never felt good when the conversation was over, however, she would say very rude things to me and it felt good when I just wouldnt dignify her questions with answers. really didnt want to say anything to respond.....just not worth it as it was so harsh, threatnening....and almost fabricated.....i am assuming she is bitter....i dont beileve how our relationship went from 0 to blown up in a short time over an argument Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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