Donknowhatodo Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Hi I'm just curious on everyone's opinion on dating a person who smokes. I dated someone for 2 months who must of smoked between 1-2 packs a day, and had such a horrible cough i wouldnt kiss her on some days. P.S. Got back togethor with Ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Although I was a smoker years ago I now have a hrad time being a round people who do. Interesting you got back with the ex. Congratulations. How about some details as to how that happened? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Msnak Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Donknow-- You're trying to be slick -- adding the P.S. about the ex! Cool for you! But you're right, I WILL NOT date a smoker. Did it once, the guy was gorgeous and I was really drawn to him like never before, but I couldn't kiss him. He made jokes that Listerine makes a difference, but I couldn't get over how just his clothes smelled of smoke. I couldn't kiss a chimney, as they say. Honestly, if I see a handsome man and he smokes, I lose interest. I am fearful, perhaps, of falling for a smoker and then not having them in my life for as long as necessary, due to health problems. Comments from others?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiquidCherry Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I used to smoke.. Since I was 14 and I quit successfully about a year an a half ago. I can't date someone that smokes. First, now that I don't smoke I can smell how terrible it really does smell, second, I can't stand to kiss someone that tastes like an ashtray, and third and most importantly it's too much of a temptation for me to be around someone very often that smokes.. I don't want to pick up the habit again. Hanging out with friends for a few hours that smoke is fine but a serious relationship.. No way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Ugh. Sorry I have to rant again but there's enough 'bad' things we are exposed to everyday, why would you want to go out & indulge yourself with chemicals you know that's harmful to your health. That's just...gross! LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilovecats Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 NO WAY!! I could never date a guy who smoked.That is just so gross and not to mention very unhealthy for the smoker as well as myself.(Second-hand smoke sucks!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dako Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 No cigarette smokers for me, but I'd date someone who likes to share a cigar. My ex and I used to like a Fuente on weekends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarnelianButterfly Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Cigars, cognac and some nice jazz is sexy, constantly lighting up to get a fix isn't. Cigarettes are a just a waste, a waste of money and your health. By far smoking is one of the most inconsiderate things anyone could do. They poison you more than themselves, not to mention the stains it leaves on the walls, the stink is penetrating everything. Grosses me out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Skittles Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I don't mind it, but then I am a smoker myself. Even when I wasn't a smoker I didn't mind it though. Its not that big of a deal to me. My current boyfriend smokes. I quit for a few days and he kept smoking and it didn't bother me. I still kissed him, lol. I didn't have any cravings while he smoked either. so i dunno. thats what i think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillady898 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I'm an asthmatic, and I hate the smell of smoke. I absolutely would never date a smoker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PassionatePices Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I quit smoking 2 days ago ...i gotta get outta here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donknowhatodo Posted February 2, 2006 Author Share Posted February 2, 2006 I quit smoking 2 days ago ...i gotta get outta here! congrats passionate hope you are able to keep it up... sorry about not keeping up with my own topic ahah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donknowhatodo Posted February 2, 2006 Author Share Posted February 2, 2006 Although I was a smoker years ago I now have a hrad time being a round people who do. Interesting you got back with the ex. Congratulations. How about some details as to how that happened? We just met up, and I just played it cool without mentioning anything. Then eventually she was the one who came to me about telling me her feelings. (that took about a week or two after we met the first time) And since i didnt push her to say it by talking about the past it meant more to me having her approach me about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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