Sweet Merciful Crap!

[highonyou]

Oh Dear

 

its the exam period at uni, everyone's frustrated. I left a post before asking for advice about my flatmate and how she may be a narcissist. I'm pretty sure she is now...

 

things in the flat have recently escalated!! i went crazy on her. i couldnt help it...she just kept complaining about how difficult revising for her oh-so-much-more-difficult-than-anyone-elses exams, while i had cleaned the flat, made dinner and washed the dishes by myself plus hours of revision without complaint.

 

my bf wrote her a letter on my behalf before hand just in case i couldn't say what she needed to hear. it outlined the facts e.g she doesnt do the dishes, clean the bathroom, kitchen floor, etc...

 

so my nice flatmate and i have decided she needs to learn to look after herself, i no longer cook her dinner, she's been going to a mates for dinner and takeaways...

 

im feel a bit guilty letting her struggle like this, especially since its pushing her closer to a vulnerable mate of my bf.

 

any ideas on how else to handle her? i would like to stay in the flat next yr with my other flatmate, but i dont know if she'll shift.

[Alabama]

As cruel as the idea may seem for her to look after herself, it's something she will have to learn for herself. If she hopes to survive in this world after college, then she needs to struggle now, so she won't later on. You're doing the right thing, don't worry.