A Poll(lets have some fun!)

[Amano Ginji]

Alrite...just vote for wat u feel is the best...and yeah ur forced to only the following sittuations so no question of debating...and yeah this is only for fun and kinda curious to no...

 

When a girl says "I love u",only after u tell her..she never says it first...

 

1.She means to say "i am not there yet"

2.She must be shy.

3.Shes just playing games with u.

4.ego problems?.

5.She means to say"I am never gonna say that first,i only say it cuz u say it and force it on me,i am in a relationship with u only because i am out of one and need some peace of mind"

6.She doesnt even like u.

 

Alrite no discussions..simply post the number of the statement that appeals to u the most..no double posts...lets c how it works..

 

ps-this is not my sittuation...my gf loves me and almost says it first..but still curious....and yeah jobless so started this poll

[darkblue]

Could be any/all of the six - could be none.

[Beec]

Maybe none of the above. I think she may be too insecure to say it, she does not want to feel the vulnerability that will be there if it is never said back to her.

[DiscipleOfChange]

Although you've told us to chose from the 6 options provided, why can't the answer be, that she loves you too and said so in response to you telling her how you felt. Not being the first to say something doesn't necessarily make a person shy

[Dating Coach]

I know you said it's just for fun but I can't play along because no answer is right. Now if you gave a scenario with more information, then I could give you an answer that I would be comfortable with, but until then, I can't.

[ScoobyBaby1500]

I think the answer is 5. they wouldnt let me enter a # lol

[Little Tomato]

Well, when it happens with me, it's 2. And it's because the guy who says "i love you", only says it sometimes - he's hot and cold. I never know what he's feeling, so I don't want to blurt out "i love you", just in case he's in a "let's just be friends" mood. So yeah, it's got a lot to do with insecurity and shyness.

But the problem with this poll is that you can't say, here's a situation, every woman must react to it in the same way. Everybody's had different experiences throughout their lives, which shape the way they react to things.