he finally said what I knew all along

[GymSweetie]

Hello Everybody!

 

The most wonderful thing happened today!

 

To sum it up...I was married and became involved with my adoring, commitmentphobic best friend. I won't go into what went wrong in my marriage because it has all been iterated in previous threads (long story). I am currently separated from my husband and still in the middle of divorce.

 

My fwb had broken off with me over a year ago and said he wanted to remain friends. It wasn't easy (somebody told me once-nothing good ever came easy.)

 

There were alot of tears at first, periods of NC-even still, a continuous letting go, ups & downs, days I thought I couldn't get through, jealousy...

 

Then, six weeks ago he took me out and kissed me goodnight.

 

It has been a very slow process, but, we perservered & stayed friends, despite all you skeptics.

 

I am living proof it can be done! We are still best friends. He is my best friend/soulmate/lover. We are not yet bf/gf...

 

But, he finally said what I knew all along...............

 

Today, he told me he loves me!

 

 

btw...Hi Ara aka Muneca!

 

[Alabama]

I'm glad for you! I hope everything continues to go well! 8)

[melrich]

Sounds like you have been waiting for this for a long time, so glad you are happy.