is it right?

[naughtycowgirl]

It is so not my fault but i want to know if it is how i look or what. i always seem to attract men over 17 and ^. and i am only 14, if you will look at my previous post there are alot of them on age-gap relationships. I mean i know i look older but i dont know how to stop.

 

 

HELP ME?!?!?!?!?

[DiscipleOfChange]

I wouldn't try to make yourself look obviously young to ward off the guys. If its something that bothers you, let guys know as soon they begin to show interest how old you are. If this doesnt bother them, but still bothers you, let the guy know.

[melrich]

I am guessing it probably does have something to do with how you look or dress. Really most guys at 17 or 18 plus are not really going to connect with 14 year-olds and if they try to will probably have ulterior motives.

[Gilgamesh]

Have to agree with the above posts, guys that age basically hit on any female with two legs, they think your their age and there you go.

[DropToZero]

I am guessing it probably does have something to do with how you look or dress. Really most guys at 17 or 18 plus are not really going to connect with 14 year-olds and if they try to will probably have ulterior motives.

 

I beg to differ...it was the other way around in one of my past situations.

[melrich]

I beg to differ...it was the other way around in one of my past situations.

 

I'm not sure what you mean?

[DropToZero]

I'm not sure what you mean?

 

You said that 17-18 yr old guys hitting on 14 yr olds probably have ulterior motives...I said it was the other way around in my situation at one time...I was the 18 yr old, and a very mature acting 14 yr old girl was hitting on me and wanted to take it much further than it ever should have even gone. Just like said before tho...everything changes once a person is 'in' the situation and not looking at it from someone else's perspective.

[melrich]

I was the 18 yr old, and a very mature acting 14 yr old girl was hitting on me

 

Oh right. I am sure that happens to. I was just more commentating on why a 17/18 year old would be interested in a 14 year old.

[naughtycowgirl]

ok i that is cool. i mean i like the attention and it helps my self-esteem and all. but when old farts with beer bellys and beards hit on me it is just really freaky. i have told my mom and she only told me that she would kick there a**s$ if they do it again.

[annie24]

When I was 14, I looked older, and older guys, (teens, and guys in their 20s and 30s) were always hitting on me! Or yelling stuff at me when they were in their cars, driving by. Or, they'd try to come onto me when I was on the bus or at the mall....

 

Basically, they're just sleaze bags. (Well, actually, the guys who are 16 and 17, probably not if they go to your high school. When I was a sophmore, I was dating senior guys.)

 

But, the guys in their 20s and 30s... they're just gross. If they were mature and responsible, they could get a woman their own age, instead of preying on girls.

 

Stay away from the creeps!