HargY8890 Posted Thursday at 07:50 PM Share Posted Thursday at 07:50 PM My ex and i mutually sort of broke up. I am over my ex and agreed the friendship was cool. But , he hit me up telling me it was a possibility he had to have open heart surgery and to keep him in my prayers. He also hits me up asking how my daughter is doing. And i just saw him in the store we walked past each other the first time and the second time he stopped me and said he heard i got a promotion. He also texted me randomly and said “i heard your hair is pink now” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeDee Posted Thursday at 08:22 PM Share Posted Thursday at 08:22 PM He's scared because he's facing his own mortality. You represent a pleasant safe space Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HargY8890 Posted Thursday at 09:27 PM Author Share Posted Thursday at 09:27 PM 1 hour ago, TeeDee said: He's scared because he's facing his own mortality. You represent a pleasant safe space A safe place ? Even though we are no longer romantically involved ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted Thursday at 09:55 PM Share Posted Thursday at 09:55 PM If you agreed to a friendship, then isn't that what friends do? Communicate? If you find any cons to staying in touch, such as that it might be bad for any future romance you have with another guy, you can always tell him it's best to no longer communicate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HargY8890 Posted Thursday at 10:05 PM Author Share Posted Thursday at 10:05 PM 9 minutes ago, Andrina said: If you agreed to a friendship, then isn't that what friends do? Communicate? If you find any cons to staying in touch, such as that it might be bad for any future romance you have with another guy, you can always tell him it's best to no longer communicate. Yes but i guess because his texts are random and don’t require a response “i heard you have pink hair “ or “i saw on facebook you got promoted” etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted Thursday at 10:13 PM Share Posted Thursday at 10:13 PM Isn't it rude not to respond to a friend's contact? He's trying to start a dialogue. If his way of texting bothers you, nobody says you have to remain in contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HargY8890 Posted Thursday at 10:30 PM Author Share Posted Thursday at 10:30 PM 17 minutes ago, Andrina said: Isn't it rude not to respond to a friend's contact? He's trying to start a dialogue. If his way of texting bothers you, nobody says you have to remain in contact. What was i supposed to say lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeDee Posted Thursday at 10:38 PM Share Posted Thursday at 10:38 PM 1 hour ago, HargY8890 said: A safe place ? Even though we are no longer romantically involved ? It's more of nostalgia. People tend to remember the good times. You don't have to respond. Cut the guy some slack due to his health. Wish him well & be done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted Thursday at 11:46 PM Share Posted Thursday at 11:46 PM Text him that you wish him all the best and that it's time to go your separate ways permanently. Request no more contact and thank him for respecting your wishes. If he's relentless, block and delete him everywhere in your phone, social media, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smackie9 Posted 12 hours ago Share Posted 12 hours ago Doesn't he have family and close friends to give him support? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HargY8890 Posted 12 hours ago Author Share Posted 12 hours ago 5 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Doesn't he have family and close friends to give him support? He’s not from down here he’s from New York so i don’t think so Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwothe28 Posted 12 hours ago Share Posted 12 hours ago Are you a man or a woman? I mean dont get me wrong there is a chance that you are 50 year old bi man who dyes his hair pink, pretty sure those exist in places like California. But on the other thread you said you are a man in 50s with girlfriend so its kinda confusing with talks about man ex while you now have girlfriend? In case you are not a troll: Maybe he just wants to maintain contact? Some people just dont ask questions but start a convo about something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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