Catlady15 Posted Saturday at 08:04 PM Share Posted Saturday at 08:04 PM I’ve been talking to a guy that comes into the shop where I work for some time now, last week he gave me his number and said here’s my number if you want to go for a drink or meet for a coffee, I would really like to but I’m to nervous to call him and not sure if I should text Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shouldhavelearned Posted Saturday at 08:04 PM Share Posted Saturday at 08:04 PM Yes Give him a call 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SophiaG Posted Saturday at 08:32 PM Share Posted Saturday at 08:32 PM Is this someone you only see as a friend, since you posted this in the friendship forum? It sounds like he wants to date you. I'd text him first if calling feels unnerving. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catlady15 Posted Saturday at 08:36 PM Author Share Posted Saturday at 08:36 PM 3 minutes ago, SophiaG said: Is this someone you only see as a friend, since you posted this in the friendship forum? It sounds like he wants to date you. I'd text him first if calling feels unnerving. I would like to get to know him better I do feel as though we just ‘clicked’ I see him as a friend at the moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SophiaG Posted Saturday at 08:40 PM Share Posted Saturday at 08:40 PM 2 minutes ago, Catlady15 said: I would like to get to know him better Sounds like you two are on the same page. That's great! I would text him and casually suggest a time/place for said coffee/drink. Also in case it becomes something more I do think you should step away from the FWB situation in your other post. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted Saturday at 08:50 PM Share Posted Saturday at 08:50 PM Going out for alcoholic drinks? I agree with others, I would do something safer and get to know him better before alcohol. Play it safe. Meet for a walk, tea, coffee, snack or lunch. Something like that. If you're uncomfortable calling him, text is good. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yogacat Posted Saturday at 10:01 PM Share Posted Saturday at 10:01 PM Exciting. I recall a time a guy gave me his number, I in turn texted him my phone number and he called. It's kind of like saying he's interested and wants to see you are interested too... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted Sunday at 02:38 AM Share Posted Sunday at 02:38 AM No harm can come from a simple phone call. And many good things could happen as a result. As someone who regrets not taking opportunities when they have present themselves, don't let moments like this slip by. Seize the day. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted Sunday at 05:55 AM Share Posted Sunday at 05:55 AM I would call, yes. He is obviously going to be happy to hear from (and is likely waiting to hear from you) if he offered his number. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SophiaG Posted Sunday at 01:16 PM Share Posted Sunday at 01:16 PM If you never gave him your number your call could be declined or ignored due to it being an unknown caller. Too many spam calls these days. Text him your number or just say who you are and ask him when he wants to get that coffee, or suggest a few times you are available. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AuthenticSelf Posted Sunday at 09:42 PM Share Posted Sunday at 09:42 PM On 9/15/2024 at 8:04 AM, Catlady15 said: last week he gave me his number and said here’s my number if you want to go for a drink or meet for a coffee Did he give you his number out of the blue? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted Sunday at 09:47 PM Share Posted Sunday at 09:47 PM Be brave and just do it!!! We all make these things scary when they simply are not. Don't let fear control your life, this could be something awesome. Do it soon or he will think you are not interested. Let us know what he says and how it goes. Lost 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted Sunday at 10:14 PM Share Posted Sunday at 10:14 PM Think it's a unaniamous - call. Be it friends or more, you'll never know unless you that first step. Hope it turns out well for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shouldhavelearned Posted Sunday at 10:24 PM Share Posted Sunday at 10:24 PM Did you reach out to him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catlady15 Posted Tuesday at 08:46 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 08:46 PM On 9/15/2024 at 11:24 PM, shouldhavelearned said: Did you reach out to him? I’ve just messaged him 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted yesterday at 05:43 AM Share Posted yesterday at 05:43 AM Good luck. Hope it goes well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catlady15 Posted yesterday at 08:48 AM Author Share Posted yesterday at 08:48 AM 3 hours ago, ShySoul said: Good luck. Hope it goes well. Thank you, we have arranged to meet up on Saturday. He called me this morning. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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