slimKimmie Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 I met this guy in may we were dating it wasn’t really working out so we mutually broke it off. And he told me that we were still cool and that he would still check on my daughter. My daughter has only met this man once and that’s because we did a date at the park. I talk about my daughter here and there she is one years old but he hasn’t formed a bond with her because they’ve seen one another once. So i told him he didn’t have to check in on her we should have a clean cut off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwothe28 Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 Just say to him that is unacceptable. Lots of creeps out there and checking on somebody child is unacceptable after just meeting once. Could also be “fake niceness”. You know, “Lets keep in touch maybe sometimes but probably never”. But still, his choice of words is really weird and dont think you should be having contact with somebody like that. Ever. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slimKimmie Posted September 10 Author Share Posted September 10 34 minutes ago, Kwothe28 said: Just say to him that is unacceptable. Lots of creeps out there and checking on somebody child is unacceptable after just meeting once. Could also be “fake niceness”. You know, “Lets keep in touch maybe sometimes but probably never”. But still, his choice of words is really weird and dont think you should be having contact with somebody like that. Ever. I mean i don’t see a reason for fake niceness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post smackie9 Posted September 10 Popular Post Share Posted September 10 As this child's mother, why don't you find this alarming and a threat to your daughter's safety? 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slimKimmie Posted September 10 Author Share Posted September 10 5 minutes ago, smackie9 said: As this child's mother, why don't you find this alarming and a threat to your daughter's safety? I don’t i didn’t say it was just wondering what’s the need Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smackie9 Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 1 minute ago, slimKimmie said: I don’t i didn’t say it was just wondering what’s the need Only he can answer that. We can only assume his got a sick mind because this behavior is inappropriate because he has no business having such an interest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coily Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 Met her once? That's a red flag, flat out tell him no. I wouldn't be mean about it, as there is something off with him that could get a spiteful reaction from him. As to why? There's one obvious answer. If it was several years of dating or he had kids and the kids bonded, that's one thing; this doesn't fit into that profile. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slimKimmie Posted September 10 Author Share Posted September 10 9 minutes ago, Coily said: Met her once? That's a red flag, flat out tell him no. I wouldn't be mean about it, as there is something off with him that could get a spiteful reaction from him. As to why? There's one obvious answer. If it was several years of dating or he had kids and the kids bonded, that's one thing; this doesn't fit into that profile. I told him he didn’t have to check on her that i needed a clean cut and he said “i know i don’t have to but i want to” 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coily Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 3 minutes ago, slimKimmie said: I told him he didn’t have to check on her that i needed a clean cut and he said “i know i don’t have to but i want to” Annnnnnnnnnnd time to say no thanks and block. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 I would completely shut the door on this one, and assume he's up to no good, as it's better to be safe than sorry. In this day and age you can't be too careful with protecting your child, especially since crimes against children appear to be on the rise. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 This is truly concerning if not alarming. Do not let him have any contact or get anywhere near your daughter including if you see him out in public. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tattoobunnie Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 1 hour ago, slimKimmie said: “i know i don’t have to but i want to” Eww. Weirdo. Just say, "No." 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 3 hours ago, slimKimmie said: “i know i don’t have to but i want to” Yeah, this guy is plain creepy. Did you notice other similar red flags prior this? Who actually initiated the split? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slimKimmie Posted September 10 Author Share Posted September 10 12 minutes ago, MissCanuck said: Yeah, this guy is plain creepy. Did you notice other similar red flags prior this? Who actually initiated the split? We both somewhat did but he agreed when i initiated it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted September 10 Share Posted September 10 17 minutes ago, MissCanuck said: Did you notice other similar red flags prior this? And what about this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slimKimmie Posted September 10 Author Share Posted September 10 5 minutes ago, MissCanuck said: And what about this? No we haven’t known each other long Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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