Butterbea Posted August 24 Share Posted August 24 I delt with a nice younger man 5 yrs after my husband's passing he was nice truck driver took me on trips. We talked for over a year. Finally met. And he just brought back alive my lust for love and companionship we would talk till our phones died about any and every thing it was nice. Untill it wasn't when he revealed he stayed with his kids mom, sometimes? Just flakey and sus. One night while high as a kite. He told me stories about how she dates and he gets mad but stays, and he does the same. It was like a soap opera 😐 so I asked why would you think I want to be part of the drama? Why date if you both still want to be together? He had no answers to that question. Claimed it was for the kids. Lol so I quietly backed out after missed dates and dropped convos. NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ON A ROLLERCOASTER OF EMOTIONS DRIVEN BY SELFISH NEEDS. NOW AFTER MONTHS HE HITS ME UP "hey sweetie how are ya" would ya like to go to the movies next week ? " I'm like I'm right, and I pass I don't care for ya flakey Ness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted August 24 Share Posted August 24 In the past, cell phones didn't have the ability to block. Now it's possible, so go ahead and block. As you can see, he has the ability to stir up all that anger in you, whereas if you'd blocked him earlier, you'd be calmly continuing your journey of closure and moving on to better things. Better late than never. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted August 24 Share Posted August 24 If you don't want to talk, ignore it. You are under no obligation to talk to or interact with anyone. Focus on you and loving your life, drama free. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted August 24 Share Posted August 24 It's time to dump the chump. 🤨 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yogacat Posted August 24 Share Posted August 24 5 hours ago, Butterbea said: NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ON A ROLLERCOASTER OF EMOTIONS DRIVEN BY SELFISH NEEDS. NOW AFTER MONTHS HE HITS ME UP "hey sweetie how are ya" would ya like to go to the movies next week ? " I'm like I'm right, and I pass I don't care for ya flakey Ness Good deal! Sounds like he is still very much involved with his baby momma. That's a whole lot of baby mama drama. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterbea Posted August 24 Author Share Posted August 24 I know I should not even have answered. I don't even have his number saved but life is so dry I will admit it was nice to even decline lol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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